Step1
The beauty in living life in love is to see beyond your own horizon
Would you say that you like or would like to have love for someone special in your life? We all would. Nevertheless, that kind of love is difficult to do without being able to do that for yourself. Since we are our harshest credits having our own standards, we are the first to beat ourselves up when those standards we've set aren't met. The first thing I want you to do is take a look at yourself, your problems and challenges and say this in my life is exactly they way life is suppose to be. Don't make any judgments. Think about your divine imperfections is simple a part of the process of life. Do you think if you can do this that when you look at the people in your life, you could say the same thing? Could you begin to accept them unconditional; accept them as they are? If when you answer this question, you are adamant and say to yourself that you, for instance, already do this with your mate, but they don't do it with you, then you still have the job of needing to accept yourself, unconditionally. The way you feel about yourself is a big part of who you attract in your life.
Step2
documenting feelings and experiences can help with focus and dispensing pain
In a hardcover book, so you can keep it better for a reference, write down exactly how you would like someone to love you. Be specific.
What would you want them to do for you? Say to you? How to you would want them to feel about you? When you are finished writing down your answers to the above questions, what you have written is exactly what you need to do for yourself. The more and better you become at loving yourself, the move love you will attract in your own life.
Step3
we are are as the web built by a spider intricate and delicate
When we are here to think we are in existence for anything other than love, it is when turmoil enters our lives. For example, if I'm thinking that I'm writing this article for the mere sake of making money or vanity purposes, this article would not help impact upon your life. It is though love that the words are even formulated or activated from my brain to reach to the writing of it to share love. Is it not love, the creation of sharing, teaching and expression? It is through love of feeling the needs of people that we must share love in ways that are most effective. If you have a thought that will help the spirit of another and you express it, you are living in love. It is helping to give the vision of success, helping to chart paths or help paths stay on that of love.
Step4
how effective is a snowflake that can float, redirect path, cool and comfort all at the same time
Do your jobs with purpose. Love has to be a part of what you are doing, for what you are doing to give you joy back. It is circular, love. You must have feeling and it will serve the purpose of life being meaningful and helps other live their lives effectively.
Step5
a cloudy day starts with the lack of the energy of sending forth love
So again, when we forget this most important design of life, days, encounters, experiences and life begins to take on paths of difficulty and hardship, for ourselves and others effected by what we do or don't. Indeed it is a challenge to find love within yourself when you are frustrated, angry or impatient with yourself or others, nevertheless, you have to keep up the vision, you have to remind yourself 'why you are here' and keep close to your heart that it is, to love.
Step6
a jellyfish through it looks transperant is strong, detailed and refined
If you keep in your mind when you come into an encounter with anyone in any situation and bath them with the shield of love, your energy will cause results of amazing positive differences than with someone who has forgotten or does not love. This is not paranormal, but just the way the universe works, although ironically in a way it could be called para "for" normal or normalcy, which is our birthrights to be at peace.
Step7
like a monarch keep your focus and direction toward the purpose of life
People need to feel loved and valued to take chances and risks. We are all soldiers and it is our duty to see that each of us takes on the responsibility to allow each of us the opportunity to share and experience love, unconditionally.
Step8
If you want to know How to find love, you first have to live in love.
Comments
zigsun said
on 9/24/2008 "The way you feel about yourself is a big part of who you attract in your life"...that's one of those "WOW" comments that hits you right square in the face. Thanks for the article, it was great. It has really got me to thinking.
zigsun said
on 9/24/2008 "The way you feel about yourself is a big part of who you attract in your life"...that's one of those "WOW" comments that hits you just at the right time. Thanks for the article. It was great.
almondspecial said
on 8/10/2008 Love this article .Great advice Five *****
anusha9900 said
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on 7/9/2008 Ahhh love!Great advice!