How to find out if you are dating a married man.

You will learn how to work your inner instinct which guides you to know the unknown.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

1. In dating, you should always take the time to get to know your courtship. Analyze the person you're dating inside and out. Watch his actions on how he presents himself to you. If he's extra nice in the start up, you know it's something hidden within him. He has something going on in his life that will soon be revealed.

2. Ask him to see his drivers license and look closely at his address. Make him think you want to see how his picture looks on it. Take the time out to go on the internet. Go to people search and put in his name. When you get there you will see some possible relatives' names listed near his name. Remember, some of the information on people search is not accurate. Start a conversation up with him about your relatives; therefore, he won't think or know your reasons for asking any questions. Confirm the information by asking him about some of his relatives' names. Don't give him any clues on why you've brought up the conversation. Wait and see how he is going to act on your next date.

3. Check this out, when it's time to go out on a date, he will never show up when he is suppose to. When he gets there, he'll start explaining why he was late before you can ask. He'll greet you in a lustful way to try to get your mind off of the thoughts which causes curiosity. Keep your first thought before you, because it is normally the right thought. Watch and listen in on everything he says from this point on. The hidden will soon be revealed.

4. When you meet a married man he will most likely give you a reason on why he doesn't invite people over to his house without voluntarily asking him. For example, a married man will tell you he has a room mate when he really doesn't. Here is another excuse, he will say I'm the type of man that doesn't take pride in keeping my house clean, so I'd rather come over to your house. Another excuse he will give you is that, he doesn't have any furniture in his house and there isn't any where to sit. Watch out and listen to the useless excuses.

5. Start asking him to come over when there are know planned dates. He will most likely say, that he has something very important going on for him to do. Continue to ask him over when you know you have analyzed his conversations, and have already heard him say he has nothing to do on that day. You need to really start praying for your inner instinct to reveal, who you are dating. When he does decide to come over, he will most likely leave at a set time. If he brings in his phone, he will put it on vibrate and will go to the bathroom to check his calls. Know that, if a man can not check his calls or take a phone call in the front of you, something is wrong. He is hiding something other than getting a call from or for work related reasons. Most of the times married men with male friends, will show up over to your house after leaving the friend's house. That is away to keep the game going to where you wouldn't see any tenseness in him. Be mindful of him always calling his friends when he is over to your house. You must know, when a not married(single) man is dating you to get serious, he doesn't intend to let his friends in on every move he makes. That is for you to know he really cares about you.

6. A married man will be very specific about where he takes you and the time you must arrive there. It is not, because he is the type of man that is prompt in everything he does. It will be, because he has a set time to be at home with his wife and family. I know us women like to be on time too, but try to extend the time that you're out with him and watch how he reacts. He will probably leave you there if he has to. Remember a married man has other obligations that needs to be fulfilled, that is with his wife and family.

7. I tell you what, make a date out with him and say that it is a surprise on where you are going. If he says, "You should let me know where we're going," your curiosity is positioning you right. If he excepts the date, you must not let him know the location. Make sure that you are driving your vehicle. Take him in the vicinity or some where near where he says that he lives. Watch his actions once you start arriving close to your destination. He will probably get fearful and began to ask, "Where is it you are taking me?!" If he says, "I no longer want to go out on the date, because I realize that something else has come up, for me to do!" That should let you know he's married and is trying to avoid getting caught in his act.

Tips & Warnings

• Be mindful of the man that says to you, that he has a house in two different locations. Most of the times those are the ones that will try to play you for a fool.
• Be careful of whom you give your phone number out to. Most women think athletes, doctors, lawyers, actors, pastors, ministers, and any other top notch professional man would tell you if he is married.

[amyco9]

on 6/28/2009 Came across this article by accident, but as luck would have it a dear friend of mine needed to read it!

[blaquetweety64]

on 11/15/2008 I have met married men. They were straight forward with me. I never took it any further than that. It just made me sick. I refuse to be with a taken man. Married or not. Wont do. 5*

[buitenstaander]

on 10/19/2008 Great article.. it's weird that married men would actually date, but - since they do, thanks for writing.

[nccowboy]

on 10/14/2008 How do I find out if I am dating a married woman?

[missnice104]

on 9/18/2008 Excellent article!!