How to get your man's attention

This is an article about getting your man's attention.But more importantly it is about giving attention to yourself. Doing this enables you to have more to share with others.

Things You'll Need

• A determination to take care of yourself and a dash of self love.

Instructions

1. 

   This question is as old as time. Yet women still struggle with it. How to get your man's attention. The million dollar answer is this. You do exactly what your mothers and grandmothers have always told you. Don't. Concentrate on yourself. Improve yourself for yourself. After all that is what you were doing when he first saw you. Then, without a doubt you had his undivided attention. You were minding your own business focusing on you and your life and he could not get enough of you. As a matter of fact you were so busy being you getting his attention was not an issue.

2. Have you ever had your mother tell you to let the young man call you? So true, if he wants to find you he will and if you just happen to be available, well, you decide.

   Most men will tell you a man loves a selfish woman. These women are concerned about what they need and where they are going. They are taking care of themselves. They get the diamonds the cars and the beautiful lifestyles. Take a hint.

3. Have you ever noticed how women who never seem to notice men get all of their attention. That is because they are usually more into themselves than they are into the man. Perhaps he doesn't feel so much pressure from a relationship and feels more inclined to pursue. Like it or not, it works.

   In the great romantic periods of the world, men waged wars for women. These were not self sacrificing women laying down all for their man. These were women who stored great value in themselves. Chances are if a woman is self sacrificing he is out there with someone else who is demanding more of him and you can bet your best hat he is doing his best to live up to her expectations.

   When you read of the great love stories of days gone by you wonder why there was such intense love and commitment. The values were different women were not so accessible and men had to work harder to get them. Their families valued them more they valued themselves. So go ahead lotion yourself with expensive oils, jog, study, whatever works for you in terms of getting you, into you and self worth. As the movie Field of Dreams puts it. "If you build it they will come."

Tips & Warnings

• Men always generally always pursue their goals and dreams. It is an understanding in our society. We as women must learn to do the same.

• No advice is etched in stone. There is always the other side of the coin. But looking out for you is never a bad idea.