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Step 1
Explain to your kids what's involved in caring for an animal, from feeding to house breaking to playing with the pet. A pet isn't a short-term commitment; he'll need care for the rest of his life.
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Step 2
Decide what kind of pet you want. Dogs and cats are the most common household companions, but other animals, like hamsters and rabbits, are good pets, too.
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Step 3
Head to the pound and show the animals to your children. Ask the employees which animals might be suitable for homes with children and look at them first. Encourage the kids to interact with the animals and tell you which one they like the best. Use your best judgment as to what breed of dog or type of cat might make the best pet for your family.
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Step 4
Adopt the animal and bring her home. Show your kids how to approach the animal (don't just stick your hand in a dog's face), how to pet the animal (cats like to be stroked from head to tail), how to feed the animal (give the child a cup of food to put in the dish) and how to hold the animal (don't let the kid squeeze too hard or pick a cat up by its tail).
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Step 5
Set clear rules about the new pet. For example, if the cat is meant to be indoors only, instruct the children that the cat isn't allowed outside under any circumstances. If you're crate training your new dog, let the kids know that he can't be let out of the crate unless you say so.
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Step 6
Invite the child to help out with the animal when it's appropriate. Allowing a child to give treats to the new pet or help with the training process forges a tight bond between the child and animal. Remind children to move slowly and be patient.
