How to Deal With a Weak-Willed Child

People often discuss the challenges of raising a strong-willed child, but you mustn't overlook children with weak wills. These children are more likely to make bad decisions, even if they know it may be costly, simply because they want so much to please people. It's important for parents to recognize a weak-willed child, and help him understand that he's worthy of love, even if he says no to others.

Instructions

1. Show interest in her for who she is and what makes her special, and talk with her about those qualities. Telling her about the good you see will help her recognize those qualities in herself, and help her build confidence.

2. Use logic and speak softly to him. He will respond best to logical thinking as long as your approach is soft and sincere.

3. Listen to her when she talks to you, without interrupting. This will prove that what she has to say is valuable and make her feel important.

4. Encourage him to talk to you about anything that upsets him. Weak-willed children tend to hide their emotions, and it may be difficult to recognize when he is hurt.

5. Develop her ability to make faster decisions by reinforcing her sound moral character qualities. For example, when you notice honesty in her conversation or behavior, praise her for it. When you see her patience in a certain situation, praise her for it. The qualities you praise are the ones she'll show you.

Tips & Warnings

• Don't be manipulative when reasoning with a weak-willed child, as he will recognize it and withdraw.