How to Take the Stress Out of Gift Giving

Everyone wants to give the perfect holiday gift, but we all know that's close to impossible. Uncle Max doesn't need or want another tie, and Grandma has enough pretty nightgown and robe sets to wear until she is 103. Maybe this is the year to organize, simplify and put gift giving in the right perspective.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

1. Make a plan. Start thinking about next year's gift giving the week between Christmas and New Year's Day. Resolve to shop for a few gifts each month.
2. Keep a list of names in your purse. Write down every single person you have to buy a gift for, and look at the list every time you're shopping.
3. Have a serious talk with you family if you feel gift giving has gotten out of control. Maybe you can all decide to just give to the children or draw names. Perhaps you could all go somewhere together on a vacation rather than spending money on buying gifts.
4. Give the same gift to everyone. Make a visit to the bookstore, and chances are you'll find a gift for everyone on your list. Stop by the music and movie store, and you'll be finished with your shopping in no time.
5. Think about what people really want. Your sister probably doesn't need another pair of bunny slippers, but she'd be thrilled for you to take her preschool kids for one afternoon each week.
6. Donate to a charity. When you thoughtfully give to a cause they care about, your family and friends will be honored.
7. Emphasize the joy and love of the holiday season, rather than what's inside a festively wrapped box. You don't have to make excuses for refusing to get caught up in the usual gift giving madness.