How to Cut In at a Formal Ball

Cutting in is not rude, if it is done right.

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Tuxedos
• Dancing Shoes
• Ballgowns
• Best Of Ballroom Dancing CDs

1. Enter the dance floor and approach the couple.

2. Face the person with whom you wish to dance, standing slightly to the couple's side.

3. Tap the person you wish to replace once, lightly, on the outside of the left shoulder.

4. Wait for the dancers to part.

5. Look at your partner, not the person you have replaced.

6. Offer one hand.

7. Step into dancing position with your partner when your hand is taken.

8. Begin dancing.

9. Choose a topic other than the previous dancing partner if you talk.

Tips & Warnings

• It is best to cut in only after a couple has danced one complete dance.

[JasneJ]

on 11/28/2008 I am going to guess this editor has never danced socially. I am also guessing they have no concept of the rudeness of "cutting in" at a formal dance.

on 11/22/2005 If you want to cut in, do so. Have fun, be yourself, and be polite.

on 11/22/2005 My tip for cutting in: don't do it! If I'm dancing with a woman, why would I want a guy cutting in? What if I didn't want him to cut in? What if she didn't him to do that? What if that woman is my wife or girlfriend? Cutting in is rude and disrespectful.

on 11/22/2005 Wait until the person notices you. Give him or her a slight glance to convey the idea that you'd like to cut in. Ask politely to dance; be polite! If accepted, thank the partner for letting you cut in.