Things You'll Need:
- Men's Dress Shoes
- Tuxedos
- Party Decorations
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Step 1
Let the groom know that you are honored to be one of his groomsmen, and assure him that you will fulfill your role with dignity - without sacrificing the fun.
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Step 2
Attend as many prenuptial events as you can - and give the groom one less thing to worry about by being punctual.
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Step 3
Help the best man throw a bachelor party for the groom.
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Step 4
Rent your own tuxedo and shoes, per instructions from the groom.
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Step 5
Arrive 45 minutes early at the wedding site to go over the seating plan and to help the groom take care of any last-minute preparations.
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Step 6
Serve as an usher by escorting guests from their cars and leading them to their seats as specified by the seating plan. (For every group of guests that arrives, seat the oldest woman first.) You may also have to direct guests to parking facilities and restrooms and give directions to the reception site.
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Step 7
Perform ceremonial duties such as escorting the bridesmaids down the aisle and, most important, standing at the altar with the groom.
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Step 8
Dance with the bridesmaids during the first dance (after the newlyweds and their parents) - you may be the ones to jump-start the party.
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Step 9
Toast the couple at the reception after the best man does so.
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Step 10
Bedeck the bride and groom's getaway vehicle with flowers, signs, streamers and balloons.
