How to Help a Teen Keep a Job While in School

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Focus on balance, making sure there's ample time for school, studying, after-school activities and the job. It's difficult but it can be done.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Things You’ll Need:

Step1
Sit down for some preplanning before the job search begins. Figure out workable days and times.
Step2
Get a job description before the teen takes the job. A job that asks a lot of a teen may make him or her too tired to keep up with other things, and the job may eventually have to be sacrificed.
Step3
Make sure there is ready transportation available. If the teen does not have a car, arrange your schedule so you can get him to work on time.
Step4
Show respect for your teen's job. If Aunt Martha is coming for dinner, don't insist that the teen try to get out of his shift in order to be home.
Step5
Keep tabs on how classes are going. Grades, test papers and parent-teacher conferences are great ways to keep on top of it.

Tips & Warnings

  • If there's too much to do and your teen is losing sleep and neglecting schoolwork, it's time for a major sit-down talk about what needs to go. Perhaps the job can be kept if another extracurricular activity is dropped.
  • Keep your eyes open for symptoms of stress; a short temper, poor appetite or exhaustion are signs that your teen is not juggling all of his responsibilities well.
  • If your teen gets into a dispute with his boss, it's likely that he will not welcome interference from his parents. Be supportive, but don't butt in.

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on 3/3/2008 that's crazy. A teen doesn't need a job, going to school full time is a job all on it's own! that's what my counselors and teachers have said!

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on 3/3/2008 that's crazy. A teen doesn't need a job, going to school full time is a job all on it's own! that's what my counselors and teachers have said!

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on 8/8/2006 Ever since I was 13, my parents hounded me about getting a job. I told them I was too young to work for anyone, but that didn't seem to matter; I could mow lawns and babysit. I somehow got out of it, but as soon as I turned 16, they literally made me apply at places. I am at my second job now, as a hostess, and I have all the issues they listed in this article. I really do not want a job, but they refuse to help me buy anything (I eat and sleep there, that's it) so I have to have one or I won't have anything. They make plenty of money too, but they think this is teaching me to be responsible. Really, it's killing me. Balancing school, work, and extracurriculars is not easy business. I may be dropping out of the school plays (which I love so much) very soon, because it's too much.

Please consider your teens individual needs. Not all can handle a job on their already full plate.

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on 3/12/2006 Ever since I turned 13, my parents have hounded me about getting a job. I told them I was too young to work for anyone, but that didn't seem to matter; I could mow lawns and babysit. I somehow got out of it, but as soon as I turned 16, they literally made me apply at places. I am at my second job now, as a hostess, and I have all the issues they listed in this article. I really do not want a job, but they refuse to help me buy anything (I eat and sleep there, that's it) so I have to have one or I won't have anything. They make plenty of money too, but they think this is teaching me to be responsible. Really, it's killing me. Balancing school, work, and extracurriculars is not easy business. I may be dropping out of the school plays (which I love so much) very soon, because it's too much.

Please consider your teens individual needs. Not all can handle a job on their already full plate.

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on 11/22/2005 I am a teen currently in search of a job during the school year. My advice is to let your teen know that they shouldn't be discouraged by their lack of previous experience. They have to start somewhere. And be supportive of their efforts. It helps in the whole overwhelming process. :)

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