Welcome new neighbors with an introductory note or a friendly chat.
Step2
Maintain the area around your home so that it's neat and attractive.
Step3
Be conscientious about noises that might disturb your neighbors, such as vacuum cleaners, music, loud talk and barking dogs.
Step4
End parties at a reasonable hour. While you're at it, invite your neighbors to come, too.
Step5
Return anything that you borrow from your neighbor, such as tools or appliances, as soon as possible. Express your gratitude when you do so.
Step6
Replace anything that belongs to your neighbor that you, your children, or your pets break or soil.
Step7
Respect your neighbor's privacy.
Step8
Offer to collect mail, water plants and watch the pets while your neighbors are away on a trip.
Step9
Learn from neighbors with cultural backgrounds different from your own.
Step10
Invite your neighbor over for a leisurely cup of coffee to discuss any problems you may have, or to share good news.
Step11
Throw a house party once a year on a weekend or holiday to socialize with your neighbors.
Tips & Warnings
If you have approached your neighbors about any problems you have with them and they do not respond to your polite requests to respect those around them, try contacting the appropriate officials, such as the rent board or your landlord (if you share the same landlord).
If they still don't comply, consider calling the police if you think your neighbors are breaking the law with respect to you or your property.
on 7/30/2008
If you have a dog,don't assume that your neighbor love's your dog as much as you do.Letting your dog wander freely in the neighborhood is not a very nice or neighborly thing to do. It's dangerous for your pet as well as an annoyance to your neighbor. Keep your pet on a leash or fence in your backyard because no one wants to step in your dog's mess-especially when it's on their property.
on 7/30/2008
If your neighbor has a pool please don't think it's ok to invite yourself for a swim. If your neighbor wants you to come over he will certainly pick up the phone and invite you.(Inviting yourself anywhere is bad manners and puts the other person in a very awkward position.) If your neighbor DOES invite you,please be sure to bring the towel's that you need and your own refreshments or snacks. Also,remember to teach your children not to badger the pool-owner's children about swimming in their pool. Lastly,it is very inapropriate for an adult to ask a child if they can swim in the child's pool-the pool does not belong to the child therefore,the child should not be asked an adult question (which he has no authority to answer.)
on 5/11/2007
For help with step five, try www.neighborrow.com... it will also help you get the inventory of your entire neighborhood and to meet the neighbors.
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JB1114 said
on 7/30/2008 If you have a dog,don't assume that your neighbor love's your dog as much as you do.Letting your dog wander freely in the neighborhood is not a very nice or neighborly thing to do. It's dangerous for your pet as well as an annoyance to your neighbor. Keep your pet on a leash or fence in your backyard because no one wants to step in your dog's mess-especially when it's on their property.
JB1114 said
on 7/30/2008 If your neighbor has a pool please don't think it's ok to invite yourself for a swim. If your neighbor wants you to come over he will certainly pick up the phone and invite you.(Inviting yourself anywhere is bad manners and puts the other person in a very awkward position.) If your neighbor DOES invite you,please be sure to bring the towel's that you need and your own refreshments or snacks. Also,remember to teach your children not to badger the pool-owner's children about swimming in their pool. Lastly,it is very inapropriate for an adult to ask a child if they can swim in the child's pool-the pool does not belong to the child therefore,the child should not be asked an adult question (which he has no authority to answer.)
neighborrow said
on 5/11/2007 www.neighborrow.com can help with number five!
neighborrow said
on 5/11/2007 www.neighborrow.com can help with number five!
neighborrow said
on 5/11/2007 For help with step five, try www.neighborrow.com... it will also help you get the inventory of your entire neighborhood and to meet the neighbors.