How to get a Boyfriend to Move in

Taking a relationship to the next level and getting a boyfriend to move in can be tricky. However, if you understand how the opposite sex thinks and approach it from that angle, it can be a relatively easy process. This understanding takes patience and an analytical mindset to come to fruition. Follow a few simple steps and before long, you can get a boyfriend to move in.

Instructions

1. Make your home at least partly his home. Women often furnish and accessorize the home from only their point of view. If you want him to feel comfortable, designate at least a room that is solely his and eliminate some of the items in the home for which he has shown disdain. If the boyfriend does not feel comfortable then he will not move in.

2. Show the boyfriend the financial benefits of the move. You will be able to split the rent or mortgage and all the other associated bills. Be sure that you show him a tangible figure that represents the money you will both save by moving in together. It may not be romantic but most men are analytical creatures and the financial side will play to that aspect of his personality.

3. Demonstrate the convenience of moving in. Not only will the move save him money, but it will also be a great time saver. Without having to commute back and forth from his home to yours it will make his life much more convenient. Again not romantic, but functionality is a benefit that will appeal to most men.

4. Invite his friends over as often as you can tolerate. If his friends are comfortable in your place than the chances are much greater that he will be comfortable enough to move in. Too many times women see his friends as a threat and make their home an unwelcome place for them. Make his friends welcome and he will be moving in no time. Beware that you can overdo it and end up causing more stress for you than it is worth. All things in moderation is the best course of action.

5. Get the boyfriend to ask you if it is okay to move in. After you made the home comfortable for him and his friends, demonstrated the benefits of the move in, back off, and let him make the choice. If you continue to nag or pressure him, chances are he will run for the hills. Just be patient and let him make the next move.