How to Give a man hug
While men have come a long way towards equality with women, there is still something a bit uncomfortable for many men about a man on man hug. However, if a moment arises when a hearty handshake just doesn't cut it for the occasion, you can give a good hug without anyone questioning your manliness.
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Instructions
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Start off with a firm and hearty handshake. If the moment might call for a hug but you just aren't quite sure, lift your opposite hand without releasing the hand shake and give a firm squeeze to your buddy's shoulder. This will allow you a moment to decide whether a hug is appropriate.
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Step in a bit closer to your buddy if indeed the moment calls for a man hug; however, do not release your shaking hand, as the hands held between you keep a bit of comfortable space. Move your left hand which was just squeezing the shoulder around your friends back slightly, but not so far that you are pressed body to body.
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Keep the shaking hands between you so that bodies never touch, or at least touch minimally and then give your buddy to or three firm slaps on the back. The back slap may be the most important step to remember when you give a man hug, as it makes both of you feel more manly.
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Take a step back as you release the man hug and then and only then should you release the shaking hands.
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Tips & Warnings
Remember that not every man is comfortable hugging another man, even when it's a manly man hug. Always use the shoulder squeeze technique to help you read the situation and if there is any awkwardness, just forget the hug entirely.
