How to get a guy to ask you out
Okay ladies. You're playing the dating game and you see a guy who might have potential. So how do you get the guy to ask you out? He might need just a little encouragement to receive the signals that you're ready to be swept off your feet. But keep in mind--men enjoy going after what they want. Don't try too hard. If they want you, they'll find you.
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Be yourself. It may sound elementary, but trying to act like anyone other than who you are will backfire. He'll either see through it right away or get disillusioned later on when the real you is unmasked. Be yourself. If he doesn't like you the way you are, he isn't right for you anyways.
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Put yourself in situations where he has an opportunity to talk to you. He won't ask you out if you avoid eye contact and scurry away from him. Get close enough to him so that he can talk to you without shouting. The closer the better.
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Have confidence. Make eye contact, and if he speaks to you, act as if you are interested, even if you're terrified. Find out what his interests are, and have fun being a bit of a flirt. Speak to him first if you dare. A simple, "Hi," will do.
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Watch your body language. Crossed arms send the signal that you are shut down to communication. Hold your head up high and relax.
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Make sure he knows that you're unattached if you can find a way to work it into the conversation.
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Tips & Warnings
Don't be a stalker. If you're at a party, resist the urge to stare at him. Act like you're having a good time, and make him want to find out just what makes you tick.
Remember that you can't make anyone do anything they don't want to do. If he just doesn't seem interested after repeated tries on your part, he may not be interested in a relationship.
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this sounds good and plus I'm shy when I see him okay then I know what to do.
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This article is a waste of time. You need to do more research.
