How to Visit a New Mother and Child

By eHow Relationships & Family Editor

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The birth of a new child is a joyous occasion for a family. Be among the first to congratulate them on - and help them ease into - this momentous time.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Things You’ll Need:

  • Baby Clothes
  • Baby Mobiles
  • Children's Books
  • Flower Bouquets
  • Picture Frames
  • Groceries
  • Baby Toys
  • Chidren's Toys
  • Infant/toddler Toys
  • Toys

Step1
Wait until the mother and child have been home from the hospital for a few days before planning to visit.
Step2
Call first to find out the most convenient time for the mother to receive visitors.
Step3
Consider bringing a gift of food or groceries to fill their refrigerator, or order out for them.
Step4
Consider baby clothes, toys or books for the newborn. Or, if the mother has already had a baby shower, bring nursery decorations such as pictures or picture frames.
Step5
Show sensitivity by bringing a little something for any older siblings as well - they may be feeling neglected.
Step6
Try not to visit for too long, and maintain a positive attitude throughout. This is sure to be appreciated by the mother, who may still be regaining her physical and emotional strength.

Tips & Warnings

  • Sometimes your attention can be the best present for an older sibling. Spend part of the day with the baby's brothers or sisters to demonstrate that they are important, too.

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on 2/2/2006 If you bring a child, be sure to explain breastfeeding to the child so they do not stare. If you are not close to the mother, or know that she will not be comfortable doing this during your visit, be sure to pick up on signs that the baby is hungry or that it is a scheduled feeding time. Discreetly excuse yourself so that she may be comfortable.

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