Show the baby sitter around before you leave the house. Indicate where necessary items for the children are, where the telephone is located, where the TV is and how it works, and how to lock doors.
Step3
Warn the sitter if there is an expected problem with a child (for example, "Johnny always cries for 30 minutes after we leave").
Step4
Give the baby sitter some idea of what your children would like to do, to eat or to watch on TV as well as a list of things you do not want your children to do.
Step5
Reiterate any safety precautions, such as "Don't tell anyone who calls that we are not home," and "Don't open the door to strangers."
Step6
Tell the baby sitter the children's bedtime and explain the bedtime routine (bath, brush teeth, etc.).
Step7
Leave a phone number where you can be reached.
Step8
Have something in the house for the baby sitter to eat and drink, and tell the baby sitter those items are for him or her.
Step9
Tell the baby sitter ahead of time that you don't want the baby sitter to fall asleep no matter what time you get home, if this is the case.
Step10
Tell the baby sitter what time you will return, and return at the promised time.
Step11
Check in with the baby sitter at least once to make sure all is well.
Step12
Pay the baby sitter immediately once you return - unless you have agreed otherwise.
Tips & Warnings
Baby sitters are not responsible for following your wishes when you haven't expressed them.
on 12/16/2005
While you are still home (with your babysitter there) let your child know that the babysitter is the one in charge. This will prevent your child's ignoring the babysitter's rules and requests and deferring to you on all disagreements. Letting the babysitter take over while you're still home. This helps maintain the balance of power in her relationship with your child, and will allow you to continue getting ready in peace.
on 11/22/2005
Even if you don't like your children to watch too much TV, consider allowing them to do so with the sitter. Treat baby sitting as a fun time to do special things. Also, always leave information like your address and phone number so the sitter knows where he or she is. It makes things so much easier for the sitter!
on 11/22/2005
The family I babysit for makes a sheet of paper before each session and writes down everything that they have already done with the child before I came. They also write down all of the child's feedings, diaper changes, naps, and medications given. This is a great idea if you babysit for babies or toddlers who don't speak yet. If they start crying and you don't know why, check the list and see if they have already done the activity before you got there.
on 11/22/2005
If you are trying to reach the babysitter, it is a good idea to call once and leave a message that is at least 30 seconds long. If the babysitter is screening the calls, like I always do, this is a much better way to get in touch than simply calling again. Also, if you call multiple times and just hang up when the answering machine comes on, this can get kind of creepy for the babysitter.
Comments
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Anonymous said
on 12/16/2005 While you are still home (with your babysitter there) let your child know that the babysitter is the one in charge. This will prevent your child's ignoring the babysitter's rules and requests and deferring to you on all disagreements. Letting the babysitter take over while you're still home. This helps maintain the balance of power in her relationship with your child, and will allow you to continue getting ready in peace.
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 Even if you don't like your children to watch too much TV, consider allowing them to do so with the sitter. Treat baby sitting as a fun time to do special things. Also, always leave information like your address and phone number so the sitter knows where he or she is. It makes things so much easier for the sitter!
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 The family I babysit for makes a sheet of paper before each session and writes down everything that they have already done with the child before I came. They also write down all of the child's feedings, diaper changes, naps, and medications given. This is a great idea if you babysit for babies or toddlers who don't speak yet. If they start crying and you don't know why, check the list and see if they have already done the activity before you got there.
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 If you are trying to reach the babysitter, it is a good idea to call once and leave a message that is at least 30 seconds long. If the babysitter is screening the calls, like I always do, this is a much better way to get in touch than simply calling again. Also, if you call multiple times and just hang up when the answering machine comes on, this can get kind of creepy for the babysitter.