How to Find the Best Places to Meet People

By eHow Relationships & Family Editor

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Still looking for the date of your dreams? If you're wasting hours on end hanging out at the corner bar or the local gym, you might want to change your strategy.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

  • Laundry Baskets
  • Breath Fresheners
  • Cologne
  • Perfume
  • Backpacks

Step1
Choose a place that interests you. This increases your chances of meeting people who are interested in similar things.
Step2
Be creative about where you go. Parties and other gatherings are the most obvious places to socialize, but don't leave out other options.
Step3
Go collegiate. Campuses are great places to meet people if you still attend school.
Step4
Mingle. Parties, dances and movie lines are fun places to meet people who make an effort to go out.
Step5
Don't overlook the opportunities of large public gatherings. Grocery stores, Laundromats, bookstores, coffeehouses and restaurants are all casual places to meet new people.
Step6
Ask around - friends and relatives are good sources for getting exposed to other people.
Step7
Look in the area where you live. Proximity plays a big part in friendships as well as romantic relationships, and meeting new people close by doesn't hurt.
Step8
Try your luck with the personal ads.
Step9
Look around you. Familiar places like church, temple or mosque are good venues to see who's out there.
Step10
Try meeting people online. There are numerous Web sites that feature chat rooms, personal ads and individual photos.

Tips & Warnings

  • If you meet a potential romantic partner at work, think carefully before proceeding'is it worth the possible complications? Try not to look desperate'people may find this unattractive.

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on 11/22/2005 I think that the mall is a great place to meet people. :)

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on 11/22/2005 If you want to meet people, go to your local gym. Not only will you get a workout, but there are a lot of interesting people there.

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on 11/22/2005 It is very hard to build a friendship with someone based only on a fleeting glance in a supermarket line, or at the gym where everyone is there to work on their solitary fitness goals. A structured social group with regular meetings and common goals is best. Try: volunteer associations; historical reenactment associations (especially SCA - very friendly people!); etc. etc. Post more ideas! These are only two that I know of. If you know of any others - please post! I am looking for more groups to belong to myself. Belonging and regular social interactions are the keys to good friendships and no more loneliness.

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on 11/22/2005 If you're still in college,
take a social dance class like
ballroom dancing. It's a great
way to meet other girls and a
chance to dance with them too.

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on 11/22/2005 Getting involved with a theater or other structured social group is great way to meet people. Volunteer or find a way to give your time and meet people as you interact.

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