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Step 1
Think about sex with your partner. Be clear on your position in the relationship before doing anything.
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Step 2
Talk about sex with your partner. Find out what your partner thinks and honestly state your position. If this seems uncomfortable, then sex will too.
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Step 3
Think about how much you really know your partner. Sex is all about trust and intimacy; make sure you have that with each other beforehand.
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Step 4
Ask yourself if you are passionate about your partner. If sex is just something to do, you might be making a mistake.
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Step 5
See each other more than once a week.
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Step 6
Date for a while. Be comfortable with one another.
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Step 7
Ask yourself if you enjoy making contact with the other person. Little things like hugs and kisses are good indicators that sex is an appropriate step.
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Step 8
Be prepared for safe sex. Take the necessary precautions so that sex can be enjoyable, both during and afterwards.
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Step 9
Have fun. Try not to anticipate the best sex of your life. Relax and go through the steps in determining if the right time to have sex is now.
Comments
rescue1122 said
on 11/18/2009 as food is the basic need SEX is also basic need the human being.but be sure that it should be with your life partner then u can really enjoy the pleasure of having sex
jagdiman7 said
on 11/17/2009 It is a very good question because life is difficult without sex.I some body wants to know which is the right time for sex there is no time in performing sex it can be performed during daytime and during the night depends upon the partner.The atmosphere should be quiet and discuss your partner for sex discuss some hot sex stories some erotic stories then get your partner exited for sex and go for it.
rabiul said
on 11/17/2009 Just try to tie up yourself like that ~ LOVE + MARRIAGE + SEX + FAMILY. U must be happy. Happiness is only never ending satisfaction in life, not SEX at all.
rabiul said
on 11/17/2009 ‘SEX’ is really very cheap at today’s society. U can buy even manage it if u want. But remember, the best sensation in your life – is hidden in the sex. This is your only personal habitual feeling that u never be share with another one.
“SEX’ is a natural habit to fix a love ties with your partner, and it became natural for human being when it not bounces from one to another. And this is the perfection of a human being I hope.
No need to experience, because ‘SEX’ is really not a commercial matter, although u find it any time in any place - from billboard to sex video sites – as a product. SEX is natural and not everlasting but the love and family tie is everlasting. So, If u don’t treat SEX commercially- no need to experience….no need to sex videos before marriage. Even on need to VIAGRA if u r not sick. Natural inability at the stage of ages is not a sickness.
Just try to tie up ...
texan6533 said
on 5/30/2009 Even as Christian man, I understand your point of view Dontcare. I can see how many people view Christianity as a very constraining belief and that you should be able to make decisions on your own. However, I will say that is exactly the beauty of believing in God. God gives us the choice to believe in him or not and live the way we want. If you think about it, its the most liberating feeling that life can offer. I know that waiting until marriage to have sex is really frowned upon these days and that some people even consider it outdated, but honestly sex was created so that a man and his wife could experience the highest sense of love there is. I know its a little hard to understand at times, but I promise its a lot for fulfilling than bouncing from girl to girl (trust me I've lived that life and I wasn't half as happy as I am now)