How to Ask for a Phone Number

Say you're at the grocery store and out of nowhere comes a stunning specimen, pushing a cart straight toward you. Don't just stand there speechless in aisle 9 - ask for a phone number!

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Answering Machines
• Telephones
• Breath Fresheners
• Cologne
• Perfume
• Pads Of Paper
• Pens
• Pens

1. Approach the person. Remember that eye contact and a gentle smile are crucial in appearing friendly.

2. Enter the conversation with a compliment, then introduce yourself. Try not to be too cute with your delivery.

3. Talk. You'll get a strong sense of whether the person would be willing to give you a phone number. If there's no eye contact or smile coming your way, and you're really making a solid effort, then maybe you should abort the mission.

4. Ask for the number. Try not to be pushy, and show respect for the person's private information. Avoid "How about giving me your number?" and go with "It would be great to get to know you better. Is there a number where I can reach you?"

5. Offer your own phone number after getting the other person's, if you feel comfortable doing so. Men may offer their own numbers even after women deny them, since some women are not comfortable with giving out their numbers.

[callmechris79]

on 4/21/2009 Good advice. I think it just seems a little to basic. You really need to calibrate a lot of things in the body language.You should expand on that maybe?

[ala003]

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[zemzem82]

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on 9/23/2006 Guys, don't ever say "What's your name?" it just doesn't fly. Say with confidence Hi...my name is Joe... and she will have to drop her name, because its social etiquette. Also it's a good way to start hitting on her without coming on too strong, because you are still within guidelines. Whats your name is cornering and pushy, who actually asks that?

Don't ask her for her number, tell her you want her number.