How to Choose a Restaurant for a Date
Choosing a restaurant for a date can be an adventure. Remember, a place to eat isn't just about the food - it should also allow for pleasant interaction.
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Instructions
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Turn down the volume - the place should let you and your date get to know one another without needing a bullhorn.
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Remember the importance of service - you and your date need time and privacy; you don't need attitude or neglect.
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Think about the lighting. Make sure you can see each other, but you might want to avoid the tell-all threat of cafeteria lighting.
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Consider the cost. Try to pick a restaurant you can afford, whether or not you're picking up the check.
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Opt for a place you're familiar with. However don't go to a place where everyone knows you on a first-name basis - your date might feel uncomfortable.
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Pick a place where both you and your date can eat. Ask your date ahead of time about any special food preferences or dislikes.
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Tips & Warnings
A coffeehouse can be a quiet, well-lighted and casual place for a first date.
Theme restaurants or ethnic cuisine can make for an enjoyable time and interesting conversation.
On a first date, pick a restaurant that's easy to find, since getting lost may lead to some unwanted tension.
Who pays at the restaurant depends on who asks whom. The person who asked should pay on a first date.
Once the first date passes, try a place that is new to both of you.
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Comments
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callmechris79
Apr 23, 2009
I liked this. You gave some good advice. I liked the tip on lighting. I find lighting to be so critical when it comes to trying to get in the right mood for a date.Do you think it would be good to take notes on the friendliest, cleanest and tastiest places? Would it be wise to maybe make friends with a server there and have them become a regular. This can usually do two things. They will give you great service, keep the mood friendly and also maybe even build you up a little. -
Tricia Goss
Feb 14, 2009
Nice ideas! -
Tricia Goss
Feb 14, 2009
Nice ideas! -
lionseye
Jun 17, 2008
One of the best places to go on a first date, is a Japanese Hibachi restaurant - one of those places that cooks the food on your table. They usually put on a show, and involve the people dining there. As a bonus, you'll have something to talk about during dinner! -
lionseye
Jun 17, 2008
One of the best places to go on a first date, is a Japanese Hibachi restaurant - one of those places that cooks the food on your table. They usually put on a show, and involve the people dining there. As a bonus, you'll have something to talk about during dinner!