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How to Choose a Restaurant for a Date

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Choosing a restaurant for a date can be an adventure. Remember, a place to eat isn't just about the food - it should also allow for pleasant interaction.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

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  • Breath Fresheners
  1. Step 1

    Turn down the volume - the place should let you and your date get to know one another without needing a bullhorn.

  2. Step 2

    Remember the importance of service - you and your date need time and privacy; you don't need attitude or neglect.

  3. Step 3

    Think about the lighting. Make sure you can see each other, but you might want to avoid the tell-all threat of cafeteria lighting.

  4. Step 4

    Consider the cost. Try to pick a restaurant you can afford, whether or not you're picking up the check.

  5. Step 5

    Opt for a place you're familiar with. However don't go to a place where everyone knows you on a first-name basis - your date might feel uncomfortable.

  6. Step 6

    Pick a place where both you and your date can eat. Ask your date ahead of time about any special food preferences or dislikes.

Tips & Warnings
  • A coffeehouse can be a quiet, well-lighted and casual place for a first date.
  • Theme restaurants or ethnic cuisine can make for an enjoyable time and interesting conversation.
  • On a first date, pick a restaurant that's easy to find, since getting lost may lead to some unwanted tension.
  • Who pays at the restaurant depends on who asks whom. The person who asked should pay on a first date.
  • Once the first date passes, try a place that is new to both of you.

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on 4/23/2009 I liked this. You gave some good advice. I liked the tip on lighting. I find lighting to be so critical when it comes to trying to get in the right mood for a date.Do you think it would be good to take notes on the friendliest, cleanest and tastiest places? Would it be wise to maybe make friends with a server there and have them become a regular. This can usually do two things. They will give you great service, keep the mood friendly and also maybe even build you up a little.

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on 2/14/2009 Nice ideas!

lionseye said

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on 6/17/2008 One of the best places to go on a first date, is a Japanese Hibachi restaurant - one of those places that cooks the food on your table. They usually put on a show, and involve the people dining there. As a bonus, you'll have something to talk about during dinner!

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