How to Have a Virtual Date Online
Virtual dates can be romantic, enjoyable and revealing. Have fun but remember that an online rendezvous is not a substitute for a face-to-face encounter.
Instructions
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Find a potential romantic partner in cyberspace.
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Suggest an online date when the friendship leans toward romance.
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Pick a place, a time, and a situation: a candlelight dinner in Rome, for example.
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Share the decision-making process by "building" the date together.
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Rendezvous in a private chat room at the appointed hour.
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Take turns describing the surroundings and ambiance: food, wine, decor, music.
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Use humor to overcome shyness and embarrassment.
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Be romantic and accommodating; make your date a memorable, revealing fantasy.
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Plan another virtual date if you both enjoyed yourselves.
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Tips & Warnings
Take notes on your partner's likes and dislikes.
Chat for a while at the end of the date about the experience.
Allow your partner to arrange an entire date, then you take a turn.
Think about what you learned about your cyber-lover after logging off.
Virtual dates can be entrancing, but they can also develop into a mutual obsession.
An online rendezvous can intensify the power of "instant intimacy." Do not mistake the warm feelings that come from a successful cyber-date with real love. The "L" word should not be used seriously until after several REAL dates.
Comments
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Chaos1187
May 31, 2009
haha -
vagabond
Jul 26, 2008
I think people should make this real don't virtual. -
vagabond
Jul 26, 2008
I think people should make this real don't virtual. -
CestDesiree
Jul 22, 2008
hmmm interesting... -
CestDesiree
Jul 22, 2008
hmmm interesting...