How to Make a Great First Impression on a Date

By eHow Relationships & Family Editor

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Want to make sure your date will be eager to go out with you a second time? No problem.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Things You’ll Need:

  • Breath Fresheners
  • Cologne
  • Perfume

Step1
Dress attractively but comfortably. Don't wear clothes that make you feel stiff or self-conscious.
Step2
Be aware of your posture - it speaks volumes about you. You want to appear alert and confident by sitting up straight.
Step3
Compliment your date. Don't just say 'I like your shirt.' Be sincere and notice something that he or she took time with.
Step4
Learn to flirt (see "eHow to Flirt') and try it out. Don't overdo it, though.
Step5
Realize that you don't have to tell people how great you are. It's better to show them instead.
Step6
Be interested and interesting. Listen actively to what your date says. Ask questions and don't interrupt.
Step7
Enjoy yourself, no matter what. If you're easygoing and fun to be around and if you can roll with whatever comes your way, you can't help but make a great impression.
Step8
Thank the other person for the date - always, without exception. Good manners will get you far.

Tips & Warnings

  • Don't talk about anything negative or complain on a first date.
  • Be cautious about drinking - it will give you a false sense of confidence and your inhibitions will be lowered. You may say or do things you'll regret later.

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on 11/22/2005 When their birthday comes around, ask them what they want. They will most often say, "Nothing." That's your chance to show your interest. Don't stop until you get at least a small answer.

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on 11/22/2005 Guys, never be too hard or pushy all the time. Most girls hate it (unless they are dating a pro wrestler). Always be a gentleman.

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on 11/22/2005 Feel comfortable and relaxed. Don't rush into it because he or she could feel pressured.

Guys, don't look at your girlfriend's top while they are talking to you. Be polite and kind, not an arrogant girl getter.

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on 11/22/2005 If your date does something embarrassing, tell them about a time when you did something similar. It will make them feel more comfortable and make you easier to relate to.

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on 11/22/2005 Being a girl who likes chivalry I love it when a guy does the little things like holding doors, offers things to you first etc. It's not old fashoned, it's just nice.

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