How to Shake Hands

Historically used to show that both people were unarmed, the handshake today is a critical gauge of confidence, trust, sophistication and mood.

Difficulty:

Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need

• Etiquette Books

1. Extend your right hand to meet the other person's right hand.

2. Point your thumb upward toward the other person's arm and extend your arm at a slight downward angle.

3. Wrap your hand around the other person's hand when your thumb joints come together.

4. Grasp the hand firmly and squeeze gently once. Remember that limp handshakes are a big turnoff, as are bone-crushing grasps.

5. Hold the handshake for 2 to 3 seconds.

6. Pump your hand up and down a few times to convey sincerity. (This gesture is optional.)

Tips & Warnings

• A two-handed handshake is not for first meetings. It is a sign of real affection, and you should reserve it for friends and intimates.

• Handshakes are not appropriate in all cultures. Investigate local customs if you will be visiting a foreign country.