How to Shake Hands

Historically used to show that both people were unarmed, the handshake today is a critical gauge of confidence, trust, sophistication and mood.

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Etiquette Books

1. Extend your right hand to meet the other person's right hand.

2. Point your thumb upward toward the other person's arm and extend your arm at a slight downward angle.

3. Wrap your hand around the other person's hand when your thumb joints come together.

4. Grasp the hand firmly and squeeze gently once. Remember that limp handshakes are a big turnoff, as are bone-crushing grasps.

5. Hold the handshake for 2 to 3 seconds.

6. Pump your hand up and down a few times to convey sincerity. (This gesture is optional.)

Tips & Warnings

• A two-handed handshake is not for first meetings. It is a sign of real affection, and you should reserve it for friends and intimates.
• Handshakes are not appropriate in all cultures. Investigate local customs if you will be visiting a foreign country.

[andronicus99]

on 1/28/2010 1st off, if you're going to shake someone's hand, DON'T use you're foot. This is seen as an insult in some places. Also make sure your hand is at the end of your arm when you extend it, and if you are carrying a potato or hamster, first put that down. Only if you know the person well should you attempt to sellotape your hands together.

[DudeChillOut]

on 2/24/2009 lol.

[mesr1993]

on 5/8/2008 As a woman, I like firm handshakes with other women and men. I dont like when I shake a woman's hand and it feels like a limp fish. I also dont like when a man puts his hand out to shake mine. I think it is proper and courteous for a man to wait for a woman and for a woman to shake hands with some firmness.

[mesr1993]

on 5/8/2008 As a woman, I like firm handshakes with other women and men. I dont like when I shake a woman's hand and it feels like a limp fish. I also dont like when a man puts his hand out to shake mine. I think it is proper and courteous for a man to wait for a woman and for a woman to shake hands with some firmness.

[mesr1993]

on 5/8/2008 As a woman, I like firm handshakes with other women and men. I dont like when I shake a woman's hand and it feels like a limp fish. I also dont like when a man puts his hand out to shake mine. I think it is proper and courteous for a man to wait for a woman and for a woman to shake hands with some firmness.