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How to Shake Hands

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Historically used to show that both people were unarmed, the handshake today is a critical gauge of confidence, trust, sophistication and mood.

Difficulty: Easy
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

  • Etiquette Books
  1. Step 1

    Extend your right hand to meet the other person's right hand.

  2. Step 2

    Point your thumb upward toward the other person's arm and extend your arm at a slight downward angle.

  3. Step 3

    Wrap your hand around the other person's hand when your thumb joints come together.

  4. Step 4

    Grasp the hand firmly and squeeze gently once. Remember that limp handshakes are a big turnoff, as are bone-crushing grasps.

  5. Step 5

    Hold the handshake for 2 to 3 seconds.

  6. Step 6

    Pump your hand up and down a few times to convey sincerity. (This gesture is optional.)

Tips & Warnings
  • A two-handed handshake is not for first meetings. It is a sign of real affection, and you should reserve it for friends and intimates.
  • Handshakes are not appropriate in all cultures. Investigate local customs if you will be visiting a foreign country.

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on 2/24/2009 lol.

mesr1993 said

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on 5/8/2008 As a woman, I like firm handshakes with other women and men. I dont like when I shake a woman's hand and it feels like a limp fish. I also dont like when a man puts his hand out to shake mine. I think it is proper and courteous for a man to wait for a woman and for a woman to shake hands with some firmness.

mesr1993 said

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on 5/8/2008 As a woman, I like firm handshakes with other women and men. I dont like when I shake a woman's hand and it feels like a limp fish. I also dont like when a man puts his hand out to shake mine. I think it is proper and courteous for a man to wait for a woman and for a woman to shake hands with some firmness.

mesr1993 said

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on 5/8/2008 As a woman, I like firm handshakes with other women and men. I dont like when I shake a woman's hand and it feels like a limp fish. I also dont like when a man puts his hand out to shake mine. I think it is proper and courteous for a man to wait for a woman and for a woman to shake hands with some firmness.

kerton said

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on 12/25/2007 My friends father only has his left arm. I am not sure if I should shake with the left or right. Typically when he extends his hand it is raised and his palm is facing down. I then extend my right hand with the palm facing up and he then will bring his hand down and gasp my hand. Your thoughts would be appreicated.

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