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How to Help a Son or Daughter out of Debt

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It's natural for a parent to want to reach out and help a child who's in debt. In doing so, make sure you are helping him or her curb any unhealthy spending habits, and be sure to protect yourself.

Difficulty: Moderate
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

  1. Step 1

    Offer to help your son or daughter out of debt.

  2. Step 2

    Make sure he or she wants your assistance.

  3. Step 3

    Determine how much money your son or daughter needs to get out of debt.

  4. Step 4

    Determine how much money you can afford to loan or give.

  5. Step 5

    Decide whether you wish to loan or give the money.

  6. Step 6

    Consider giving them something of value that they can sell to raise money.

  7. Step 7

    Consider giving them a portion of their inheritance in lieu of a loan.

Tips & Warnings
  • Consider paying creditors directly rather than giving money to your child.
  • If you loan money, write a promissory note to legitimize the transaction and to have a record for tax purposes.
  • If you give them money, keep a copy of your cancelled check. If you give more than $10,000 per year, look into tax implications.
  • Take steps to confirm that your child will not go right back into debt once you help him.

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utgodmode said

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on 8/4/2009 well one of my friend just keep getting into debt again and again. We managed to help him through with his credit card debt. Finally we gave up and advised him to contact a debt counselor@866-944-9769

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on 5/15/2009 http://www.ehow.com/how_4996383_income-home-energy-assistance-program.html

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on 2/22/2009 This is so true..I just went thru the same steps with my father.. He has helped me pay off my credit card bill, but since then he only gives me a limited dollar amount to teach me how to live within my means!!!!

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on 12/30/2008 Wow... will you be my dad? Just kidding... but I think if the parents have the income to help their children they should but it should come with their child having to pay them back. I dont believe in teaching a child to mess up and we will bail you out.

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