How to Help a Son or Daughter out of Debt

By eHow Personal Finance Editor

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It's natural for a parent to want to reach out and help a child who's in debt. In doing so, make sure you are helping him or her curb any unhealthy spending habits, and be sure to protect yourself.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

  • Calculators
  • Accounting Services
  • Banks
  • Credit Counseling Services
  • Loans

Step1
Offer to help your son or daughter out of debt.
Step2
Make sure he or she wants your assistance.
Step3
Determine how much money your son or daughter needs to get out of debt.
Step4
Determine how much money you can afford to loan or give.
Step5
Decide whether you wish to loan or give the money.
Step6
Consider giving them something of value that they can sell to raise money.
Step7
Consider giving them a portion of their inheritance in lieu of a loan.

Tips & Warnings

  • Consider paying creditors directly rather than giving money to your child.
  • If you loan money, write a promissory note to legitimize the transaction and to have a record for tax purposes.
  • If you give them money, keep a copy of your cancelled check. If you give more than $10,000 per year, look into tax implications.
  • Take steps to confirm that your child will not go right back into debt once you help him.

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on 5/26/2008 This is great, I think every parent should know and do this for their grown up children.

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on 2/14/2006 Keep in mind that paying off the debt may help to reinforce the idea that their spending habits are OK. Merely fronting the money will not generally help them in the long term, and may help to make matters worse by giving the idea that no matter what they do someone will help them out. Instead of paying their way out, consider helping them in other ways such as finding out about money management workshops and helping them to put together a budget to pay off their debt gradually. Knowing how to manage money is not something we are born with, but it's an important life skill that is not learned when mom and dad keep giving handouts!

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