How to Find Out If Your Mate Is Cheating

A cheating mate can be a huge burden on a relationship especially if it's within a marriage. Many relationships end because one mate cheats on the other. If you believe your mate is cheating, take some action to find out for sure. You don't want to just sit there and allow it to happen.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

1. Monitor your mate's communication including phone calls, emails and text messages. Do your best to get your hands on his phone and his email. Perhaps you have the kind of relationship in which you can ask to use his phone. If he trusts you with his phone, that's a good sign.
2. Check her credit card receipts for signs of cheating. Look at where she spends money and how much she spends. Find out if she spends more for dinner than is reasonable for just one person. Look for any motel charges or florist purchases.
3. Take note of what your mate wears. Watch what he wears in the morning and then observe what he has on when he comes home. Find out if he still has his socks on under his shoes.
4. Put a GPS tracking device on her car. This will tell you everything you need to know about where he goes each day. You can usually hide these devices in an inconspicuous place. Keep in mind that the batteries on a GPS unit only last so long, so you'll have to replace them every month or so.
5. Talk with your mate's friends to see what you can find out. Casually mention that he's been acting strange and you're worried that he might be cheating. Pay attention to how they respond because friends usually can't lie very well. The friends might sarcastically reply that you have to talk with him if they know that something is going on behind your back.