How to Get a Girl to Know You Like Her

The beginning stages of a relationship are often the most exciting. The chemistry, the flirting, and of course the anxiety all provide a huge energy rush that makes new love so appealing to many people. However, sometimes the girl you like doesn't know that you have it bad. Learn how to get a girl to know you like her and get your relationship out of the planning stage and into action.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

1. Be authentic and true to your character from day one. The most common mistake made by men is introducing themselves as different than their actual character. Try to be as honest about yourself and your past as possible so that you are sure the girl likes you and not an idealized version of you.
2. Work on the friendship. Be available for talks and heart to hearts but make sure that you don't establish too much of a friendship basis early on. Flirt when talking to the girl using your eyes, and compliment her. This flirting will convey your interest in being a part of this girl's life.
3. Write little letters and notes to her. Leave them places where she will find them when you aren't around, like her purse or on her door. Send flowers on a random Wednesday, or funny emails letting her know you are just thinking about her.
4. Call to tell her good night and have a quick conversation before going to bed. This conversation will communicate that you think about her before bed and help her realize you are enamored enough with her to call before you lay your head down to dream.
5. Give her independence and encourage her to be independent as well. Avoid smothering behaviors such as too much calling or complimenting. Respect her friendships and encourage her to spend time with her friends. Inject a little jealousy only in a playful manner.
6. Make periodic romantic overtures such as inviting her over to watch a movie and cooking a candlelit dinner. For a more traditional woman, try asking her out officially. Rent movies or go to see movies that convey your message of being interested. Romantic comedies or "chick flicks" are definite green lights that you want more than a friendship.

Tips & Warnings

• Look presentable and smell nice. Find a scent that communicates romance and sex appeal. Wear it consistently so she begins to associate you with that smell.
• Spend about two months on this courtship process on average. Any longer will make it seem as though you are afraid to make the next move.
• Take the girl on fun dates such as to the zoo or to a water park; these places have a sense of flirtatious playfulness that communicates an interest in being a boyfriend.
• Do not rush into a sexual relationship, since it will appear that you are only interested in sex. Get to know the girl before breaching the topic of sex.