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Step 1
Introduce yourself. Work up the courage to say hello and tell him your name the next time you see him; if your crush is the friend of a friend, ask your mutual acquaintance to make an introduction.
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Step 2
Share common interests. Pay attention to the bands or sports teams that your crush likes and strike up a conversation about your common interests. Sharing an appreciation for something will make it easier to break the ice, and she'll remember you more if you like some of the same things.
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Step 3
Be persistent but respectful. The more you're around your crush, the better chance you have that he'll notice you. If there's a particular place you see him often, make yourself a regular there. But be respectful of his boundaries and space; remember that he doesn't really know you, so getting too close or being too forward might make you seem less than appealing.
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Step 4
Give a gift. Buy a cup of coffee for her unexpectedly, hold an umbrella for her when she walks to her car on a rainy day or leave a Christmas card or Valentine on their desk. A little unexpected gift will help break the ice and get her to notice you.
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Step 5
Make him laugh. If you make your crush laugh by telling a funny joke or being goofy, he'll notice you for sure. Remember that you don't know his sense of humor too well so don't do anything that might embarrass or offend him. Keep it simple and try to make him smile.
