How to Earn Friendships Back

Misunderstandings, relocations or lack of communication can often affect friendships. Fortunately, this doesn't have to happen to you. If you find yourself in one of these scenarios, there are things you can do earn a friendship back.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

1. Communicate with your friend. Don't assume that your friend knows what you're thinking or vice versa. Ask questions if you find your friend's actions or words offensive. A good question to ask is, "What do you mean by that?" This way you give your friend an opportunity to clarify things.
2. Take the initiative if you sense that you've offended your friend without realizing it. One approach would be, "I've noticed that you've been avoiding me lately. Did I do something to offend you?" Use a peaceful tone of voice and be ready to accept responsibility. This approach opens up the lines of communication and helps to earn friendships back.
3. Forgive and forget. Once you discuss a problem and make peace, put the situation behind you and don't ever bring it up again. Doing so will strain the relationship.
4. Follow up by sending a card or small gift after a misunderstanding or discussion. Let your friend know that you missed spending time or doing things together. This is a way to show appreciation, and it helps to earn friendships back.
5. Reminisce about the good times you've had together. Doing this adds value to the relationship and helps earn friendships back.