How to Act at a Parent Teacher Conference

Parents often feel insecure and intimidated when it's time for the first parent teacher conference at their child's school. This is understandable, since you may not know what to expect and everyone wants their child to be successful. Keep these ideas in mind as you prepare to go.

Instructions

1. Go with a positive attitude as your most important preparation for how to act at a parent teacher conference. Don't be on the defensive, even if you have been getting bad reports on your child's performance so far. Go with the attitude that whatever problems may be discussed, nothing is impossible. You may be surprised by a positive outcome when you go with the proper mindset.

2. Respect the time limits of your conference session. Know how much time is allotted and don't prolong your discussion and cut into the next parent's time-frame. Teachers have many parents to see during the day. Respect both the teacher's time and the time of the next parent. Keep your eye on your watch or on the clock in the room.

3. Prepare a list of questions you want to ask the teacher. Have your list handy so that you may refer to it as you talk. Listen to the teacher's concerns, questions or comments first and then ask your prepared questions if they haven't been addressed. Show that you are interested in your child's school activities. This is another important way to act at a parent teacher conference.

4. Behave respectfully if you and the teacher don't agree on some aspect of your child's learning progress or behavior. State your feelings and opinions without becoming angry.

5. Thank the teacher for his or her time when the conference comes to an end. Whether you like the teacher or not, act grateful at a parent teacher conference. Teachers deal with much stress on a daily basis, working with children. Let the teacher know you are grateful for all efforts on your child's behalf.