Things You'll Need:
- Flavored condoms
- Novelty games
- Whipped cream and chocolate sauce
- Pornographic movie
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Step 1
Purchase sex toys together at a sex shop or discreetly online. Sex toys are a great way for your and your partner to stimulate each other's genitalia without physically having intercourse. Things like kissing, cuddling, and petting can all be done along with the use of the toy. These are very low risk when it comes to passing along STDs. Note that if you are inserting something into both partners, a new condom is advisable for both partners so that fluids aren't transmitted.
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Step 2
Experiment with food in the bedroom. Another fun thing to try is using whipped cream or chocolate sauce on your partner. After spreading it in several areas, it can be playfully licked off. If you are putting the whipped cream or chocolate on a genital area, then use a male or female condom (purchase flavored) to place underneath it. This will add some spice and keep the risk of STDs very low.
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Step 3
Play games with one another. Sex shops often sell novelty games based on dice or flipping cards that instruct you and your partner to do certain things to each other. These usually include kissing one's neck or nibbling on their ear. Both of which have zero risk of spreading STDs.
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Step 4
Try mutual masturbation with your partner. Another highly erotic and completely safe sexual act is mutual masturbation. Face your partner while the two of you masturbate yourself to orgasm. Keeping your eyes locked on your partner makes for an intense connection that is completely safe.
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Step 5
Watch a porn movie while masturbating each other. Another way to provide spice is to watch an x-rated movie together (just make sure you're over the legal limit.) As you're watching the movie you can slowly begin to kiss and cuddle. Ultimately you can manually stimulate your partner with your hand. This risk of passing along an STD by virtue of manual stimulation is next to nil.
