Things You'll Need:
- Lips
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Step 1
Brush her lips with yours before kissing, and she'll never forget it.Create tension. I'm guessing you are ready to plant that kiss, but if you create tension, by getting close enough to kiss but waiting a little bit to "go there", your kiss will have a MUCH greater impact. Whether you wait a few dates or a few seconds depends on the relationship, but trust, me the feeling a woman gets when she wants to kiss you and you haven't done it yet? Sublime!
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Step 2
Show her how you feel about her by looking at her and smiling!Kiss with your eyes. I'm not saying that a woman wants to be stared down while in lip-lock, but when a guy is paying attention, with his eyes, to the person he is kissing, it gets her attention and makes her feel beautiful. For a woman, SEEING that he thinks she is beautiful can be a lot more believable than hearing it. And as few women feel they are physically perfect, when her man clearly is attracted to her visually, she feels loved.
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Step 3
Use the way she kisses you as a guide of how she wants to be kissed. Soft or firm, with or without tongue, slobbery or clean, juicy or reserrved, her kiss can tell you a lot.Respond to her. This sounds like a no-brainer, but what this means is if she isn't slobbery, she probably won't want you to be, either. Same with aggressions and tongue. The more assertive she gets with her kiss, the more she'll appreciate your aggression.
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Step 4
The more a woman cares for you, the more she will appreciate nuzzling, embracing, and cuddles.Use your whole body, not just your mouth. Kissing is an emotional experience. A woman responds to a man who uses his hands to stroke her face, his arms to hold her, and his chest to envelop her. Be respectful, but don't forget that emotion doesn't ONLY live in the lips. (Or other places!) Nuzzle with your nose, cheek, forehead... Make it about more than the mouth.
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Step 5
Before planting one on her lips, place your hand on her back, stroke her face or hair, or give her hand a squeeze.Explore new places to kiss. When a woman is enjoying a kiss, all surfaces of her skin become very sensitive and enjoy being kissed. I'm not just talking the neck, although that is a very erotic place to be kissed. Other best-kept secret places to kiss? The inside of the arms, palms of the hands, back (including the back of the neck), back of the thigh, and ankle. (WARNING: Don't try this on a first date!)
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Step 6
Expression of your emotion shouldn't just come out when you are face to face!Try new positions. Face to face kissing is great, of course. But kissing from different perspectives can heighten the sensation. Try kissing the back of her neck when her back is to you, upside down, or from standing in a lower spot than her (as in on a step) or while you are standing and she is sitting.
