How to intensify your sexual relationship with your husband with Playboy Magazine

By lu4998

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Female readers will take away a better understanding of what makes their husband's libido tick and how this information will take their loving relationship to the next level. Male readers will have a chance to see this through their wives and allow them to explore their sexuality in a safe environment.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Things You’ll Need:

  • An open mind
Step1
Have an open sexual discussion with your spouse about what turns you on. Be sure to make your partner not feel threatened, but definitely step out of your comfort levels and lovingly sexually explore yourself and each other in a non-physical way. This is extremely arousing if you trust each other.
Step2
The only rule is your obligation to make each other rightfully feel like the most desired entity in your world. This confidence allows you to take the next steps on this journey. Talk about what Playboy magazine means to each other. Ask your husband about his past experiences and ladies share your thoughts and experiences, fears and curiosities.
Step3
Always let her preview the magazine alone first. She has to maintain control over this exercise at all times. She must examine the magazine by herself to ease her intimidations and alleviate any anxiety. By allowing her to determine when or if or how much she will share with her husband will be very exciting to him. Built anticipation can be better than the reward itself. For some couples, this may be enough to add the desired levels of heat and open up a whole new sexual world and tighten the sexual relationship.
Step4
If you are at an advanced level of sexual confidence, move forward when she is ready. Couples want to deeply believe they understand one another's sexual drives, but I challenge both in the relationship that there is always so much more to learn about each other. With every sexual fantasy chapter that unfolds, we quickly realize how to pleasure one another in ways we may never have imagined.
Step5
Ladies, if you feel it is time to share, you always say when, where and how much. Let your husband review the magazine and just watch how he interacts with it non-verbally. The feelings of anxiety should subside since there will be no surprises for you. You will be surprised at what catches his eye and even more surprising, what doesn't! You will become much more sexually confident once the mystery of Playboy has been removed and everything is put on the table. This entire step must be taken together.
Step6
Be subjective once he has had a chance to experience the magazine. At this time, keep the conversation going as you thumb through the pages a second time together. Talk about what you each find attractive and even unattractive. See if you can determine one another's hot buttons and definitely allow each to have their open opinions. Don't ever forget the golden rule that it's your obligation to rightfully make your partner feel like the most desired entity in your world. Ladies, take this opportunity to let your husband safely share his masculine sexual drive. Your husband will thank you a thousand times over.
Step7
Put the magazine away. It's time to love each other free of distraction and in a snap there's no one else in the room. I only let my husband see each issue once. He will love your control and men, greatly show her your appreciation of the sacrifice your wife feels she's made and reassure her of your sole desire for her.
Step8
Look forward to next month's issue and ladies remember, he loves and married you!

Tips & Warnings

  • As soon as either party feels uncomfortable the game is over.
  • This article is of a sexual nature, not meant for those under 18.

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kebon77

kebon77 said

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on 6/30/2008 Great article. I love it 5 stars.

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