How to Give a Rectal Massage

A rectal massage is a sensual way to please your lover. The prostate gland is the man’s G-spot. Massaging it releases tremendous amounts of emotional and physical stress and, coupled with stimulation of his penis, can be extremely pleasurable. Though it may sound intimidating if this is your first foray into this kind of foreplay, it’s actually rather simple to do and definitely worth it when you see the smile spread across your lover’s face.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Things You’ll Need:

• Lubricant

1. Apply a sensual lubricant to the finger you will use to perform the rectal massage. The pointer finger will probably be the most comfortable for you, although with practice you’ll be able to proficiently use the others and also combinations.
2. With your lover lying on his back, knees up, insert your finger into your lover’s anus, so that it is pointing forward, up to your second knuckle. You may go deeper if he prefers.
3. Rub the finger back and forth in a massaging motion. This is your lover’s prostate gland. There is no way to directly stimulate the prostate gland, but anally is as close as you can get. There is only a thin layer of skin separating your finger from the gland.
4. Press the prostate gland firmly and release rhythmically.
5. Stroke the prostate gland by gently sliding your finger in and out of the anus.
6. Stimulate your lover’s penis while performing the different sensations on the prostate. Take his penis in your other hand and stroke it as you normally would, applying rhythm and pressure.

Tips & Warnings

• Your lover may be unaccustomed to being on the "receiving end" in sexual situations. You should definitely have a candid conversation before trying a new trick such as this, in bed.