How to Know if Becoming Amish is OK for You

So you're finding yourself drawn to the Amish culture and the Amish way of life, and you're thinking that it's exactly what you want out of your own daily life. But such a lifestyle change is a drastic one, and you want to be absolutely certain that it's the right one for you. We're going to take a look at some of the things you'll need to consider before you know if it's the right fit for you.

Instructions

1. Read all you can about the Amish way of life. Learn what they do and don't use, as well as what kind of food they eat, what they celebrate, and their beliefs and customs on an individual level and on a group level. Find books about their history and their present-day existence.

2. Think about what it is you're going to have to do without. Can you give up not just television and the computer, but all the other modern comforts that the Amish do not believe in?

3. Try it. Begin by saying that you're going to go 2 days without using any modern luxuries, and you're going to spend the whole 2 days fixing your food the way the Amish would and passing time as the Amish would. Don't cheat: if you become Amish, there won't be any way for you to cheat then.

4. Consult with your family. Find out what your parents and your children think of this decision. This is especially important if you are married and/or have children; your decision isn't just impacting you, but them as well. Make sure they're aware of what this will mean for them, and listen to what they have to say on the matter.

5. Speak with some of the Amish you're considering joining. Get their different views on what their life is like, what hardships they face, and the benefits to their lifestyle. Be upfront, ask questions and carefully consider their answers.

6. Find someone that is willing to let you stay with them for a time and join their family. Before you make a full commitment, you should be able to experience the culture and lifestyle firsthand, and test your own abilities and hardiness. This is especially important if you've never done things such as handled a horse or cooked a meal from scratch.

7. Ask yourself what goals you have previously set for yourself that you will have to turn your back on. You may find yourself that you're faced with the decision that becoming Amish will mean you never achieve your lifelong goal of retiring on a beach in Mexico.