How to Be Nice to an Obnoxious Relative

You've tried avoiding your obnoxious relative and you've succeeded, until now. Perhaps you're stuck at a family function and you're dreading the painful interaction with Mr. or Ms. Obnoxious. Grandma's watching, and you don't want to put her in an early grave, so you must find a way to be nice to your obnoxious relative. Follow these steps and they just might make your interactions a little more bearable.

Instructions

1. Fake a smile. Grit your teeth together and paste a fake smile on your face. You're related to this obnoxious person, so get it over with and go say hello. Initiating interaction gives you control of the situation and cuts short the awkwardness of avoiding them the whole time.

2. Ask them questions about themselves. Obnoxious relatives usually like attention, so give it to them in small doses. Asking questions gives them a chance to live out their dramas, expound on their opinions and generally make themselves feel good. This may also make them "behave" themselves for the rest of the party, or at least not embarrass you directly.

3. Try to find at least one thing that doesn't repulse you. It may be hard, but look past the obnoxious exterior and comment on one thing you like about them. It may be something as silly as their shoelaces, but it's a start.

4. While they're talking, you can amuse yourself by playing amateur psychologist. Try to analyze why they act the way they do or what issues they're playing out. You may even find that you're enjoying yourself, and that may turn your fake smile into a real one. Of course, this may backfire and your obnoxious relative may think you're truly delighted by their talking/behavior and may continue on for longer.

5. Once you've paid your obnoxious relative some attention, look for an escape route. Find ways to suddenly be needed to help someone in another room. You won't be obligated to engage them again in conversation and Grandma will be happy that you made an effort.