How to Know If A Girl Likes You Just To Get Something

The world of dating is filled with many ups and downs. It is important to know when someone genuinely likes you or, if you're just being used. Avoid wasting your time by knowing if a girl likes you just to get something.

Instructions

1. Notice how much she asks of you. Although you shouldn't "take score" in a relationship, it is important to realize when someone is taking advantage of you. Are her lights always just about to be disconnected? Does she call after long absences to ask you for a ride to the grocery store or the mall?

2. Discern her constant encouragement for you to live above your means. While she should care about your financial future, she shouldn't want you to buy things just for show. For example, does she pressure you into buying the latest sneakers or car accessories? Does she show no concern that you reached maximum limits on your credit cards because you were supplying her with gifts?

3. Pay attention to the conversation. Is she constantly talking about your material possessions? Does she always brag about your new apartment to her friends and family? Relationships should be based on substance, not your stuff.

4. Test the waters. Stop giving her what she asks for to see if she still interacts with you. Relationships based on true emotion can survive the small word "no". You shouldn't always have to give her something in order to be appreciated.

5. Ask her what she likes about you. She should be able to provide you with concrete answers. While you don't want to come across as desperate, you do want her to know you need serious answers. Use what she tells you as well as her actions to determine if she likes you just to get something.

Tips & Warnings

• Avoid asking her friends about her motives to help prevent harsh feelings.