How to Choose a Hostess Gift

A hostess gift is a thoughtful thank you.

A hostess gift is a thoughtful way to thank someone for inviting you into her home. The type of gift you give will depend on the event that you were invited to. Hostess gifts are usually not expected for casual get togethers. For formal dinner parties, or holiday events, it is appropriate to give the hostess a gift. The following article will discuss how to choose an appropriate hostess gift.

Things You'll Need

• Various types of hostess gifts

Instructions

1. Don't create more work for your hostess. When choosing a hostess gift, be sure that the gift will not require extra work for the hostess.

2. Do not give a gift that you expect the hostess to use at the party. The purpose of a hostess gift is for the hostess to enjoy the gift on her own time.

3. Give scented candles only if you know the hostess and are familiar with her preferences. Many people are particular about fragrances due to allergies.

4. Don't give the hostess a figurine. The hostess may feel obligated to display it, even if it does not match the decor or style of her home.

Tips & Warnings

• A personalized tree ornament can be a thoughtful gift for holiday events.

• Flowers are a common gift but they can actually cause more work for the hostess. She may have to find a vase and arrange the flowers while trying to entertain guests.

• Keep in mind that the classiest gifts are those that do not need to be opened right away.

• It is considered poor etiquette to give the hostess her gift as soon as you walk in the door. If possible, discreetly hide the gift and give it to the hostess as you are leaving.

Resources

• Buy a hostess gift online