Things You'll Need:
- An Eye For Detail and Subtlety
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Step 1
Look at her stance. If she is standing with her arms crossed, that is a sure sign that she doesn’t want to be approached. In any instance where she is physically closed off, or turned away from you, it is not a good time to try and initiate conversation. Contrarily, if she is in a neutral stance with her arms relaxed and at her side, it is an invitation to initiate a conversation. If she happens to be sitting, any major body part such as a leg or knee that is pointed in your direction is another surefire sign that she wants to interact with you.
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Step 2
Look at her face. There are so many nuances that can read simply by looking at a persons expressions. Any lingering eye contact, or even when you look to her and catch her staring are great signs. Similarly, a lick of the lips or a flutter of the eyelashes are subconscious tics that many women use to show that they are interested in you. Zero eye contact, or a lingering look to the left while in the midst of conversation is a sign that things aren’t going so well, and you might want to back off or try another tactic to get her attention.
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Step 3
Look for certain mannerisms or tics that she keeps repeating. A nearly universal tic for women to show interest in a man is to constantly fix and play with her hair. This demonstrates that she is making herself pretty for him. Be observant, any repetition is generally a good thing, as it shows that you are doing something that would merit a positive response more than once. Don't get discouraged though, as reading body language is a skill that takes time and effort. However, if you stick with it, you should see positive results begin to crop up in all of your future interactions.
