How to Flirt with a Girl

By Npatel628

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Girls can be complex, especially when it comes to love. Every girl dreams of meeting that "special" guy who will sweep her off her feet. Every girl is different when it comes to her preference in guys, but here's a few basic things that every girl swoons over!

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy
Step1
Personality is the biggest factor a girl looks for in a guy. While men tend to look more at the physical exterior of a girl, women are attracted instantaneously to a kind hearted, funny, and charismatic guy. Every women wants a man she can feel comfortable around. While there is a common stigma that girls like "jerks", most girls eventually want to be with someone who is respectful.
Step2
Be self-reliant and confident. If you are a smart hard-working guy, women will feel that they can be secure with you. No girl wants to have to look after their man. They want a person who can take care of themselves, and also take care of them!
Step3
Get the Look: Some women want a strong muscular guy. Some want a rock and roll type. There are girls who even dig the geeky look! The key is to figure out what the girl is like. Once you know her well enough, you can determine what kind of guy she is looking for. Basic tips are to dress nice, smell good, and have confidence. Confidence is a major turn-on for girls.
Step4
Spoil her from time to time. Take her to the movies and pay for the tickets. Buy her flowers. Write a song for her or take her out for a romantic walk. You don't always need to spend money on a girl, just show her some effort that you care.
Step5
Do NOT be obsessive, but at the same time don't neglect the girl you are after. Leave a bit of mystery that way she maintains interest in what you do. Girls don't want an overbearing guy.
Step6
Get in good with the girl's friends. A girl's best friend means a lot to them, including their opinion. If there is constant conflict between you and her friends the relationship will be bound to go sour. Be respectful and flexible with her friends.

Tips & Warnings

  • Don't change your personality for a girl. There are plenty of women looking for different things in guys. You'll find that right match for you.

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on 9/8/2008 This is so true.... Im looking forward to read more of your articles!!!!!

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