How to get a guy to propose

By GabiGabba

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The M word seems to be embedded in many females' minds. However, it is important to stress that it cannot be done on a whim, and it is a lifelong commitment. It is not a cure for loneliness or the fear of never finding your "other half." But if you know that it is time for a deeper commitment, and you know your partner feels the same way, follow these times to make yourself even more irresistible.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy
Step1
Many women forget about their interests and friendships from the time they were single. Remember those art classes you used to take? How about going back to them? Or your Thursday evening girl's night out?
Men want to see that your life does not revolve around them, that you are your own person and have interests outside the relationship.
Don't ever depend on your man for a sense of fulfillment. Think of the relationship as a nice addition to your life, but don't let it become your life by any means.
Step2
But never forget to show him how important he is to you. Show him that no matter what happens, you got his back.
For example, if he tells you he is not feeling well, take care of him for day day. Make it a movie/cartoon/whatever day, and help him get better. He will feel special that you time time off your busy routine just to help him get better.
Compliment him on something he has done, which you feel is great. It's the little gestures that make a person feel appreciated.

Remember that being independent is not the same as being aloof.
Step3
Help your man be the best he can be. This doesn't mean trying to change him, but helping him with issues you feel he needs help with.
For example, if he is struggling with a problem at work, listen to him, and offer tips on how he could make things better.
If you feel he's done something he shouldn't have, call him in on it. Don't let him just get away with things that you know he will regret.

A good example is: If your man is drinking too much, you may want to find out why, and help him get through it. Or if he's a workaholic, help him find things he enjoys beyond work.
Step4
Be exciting. Always have something new to talk about, and never fear adventures. This doesn't have to mean bungee jumping, but it means that you are constantly challenging yourself to do something you wouldn't normally do. It can be as simple as going to a party and meeting many new people, or taking a cooking class just because it's something you've never done before.

This means that you will always have something to look forward to, and something new to share with your love.
Step5
Last but not least... enjoy sex! A lot!
Many men fear that their exciting sex life will be over once they tie the knot. Get him over this fear by doing intimate things you both enjoy, and make sure to do it (very) often. It increases the intimacy, and it's very, very good.

And many times when you don't feel like you're in the mood, you put yourself in the mood... let him touch you, make advances, and you will find that it is a very pleasurable experience.

Make an effort to have connected sex, that doesn't involve just the body, but the mind as well.

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