How to Set a Tea Party Table

Although some typically think of a tea party as a formal affair, it can be as casual or elaborate as you choose to make it. Regardless of the level of formality, there is still typically a proper way to set the table. From the flowers to the teacups, it can all come together beautifully to form a comfortable, yet polished tea party table setting.

Things You'll Need

• Solid color table cloth
• Cloth table napkins
• Napkin Rings
• Tea spoon
• Tea cup and saucer
• Lunch sized plate
• Three tier tray
• Snacks
• Tea
• Tea pot
• Serving tray
• Condiments
• Condiment bowls
• Flowers and vase

Instructions

1. Use solid color table linens. For a burst of color, use a tablecloth in a color that complements the teacups, such as blue or yellow; another option is to use plain white. The cloth napkins should be either a complementary color to the tablecloth or be white but have an embellishment on it, such as flower embroidery.

2. Set the dishes and flatware in proper formation. Use lunch-sized plates instead of dinner plates. You will also need a teacup and saucer, tea spoon, napkin ring and cloth napkin. Place the plate on the table directly in line with the guest's chair. Put a folded napkin -- secured with a ring -- to the left of the plate. Put the tea spoon to the right of the plate, the saucer to the right of the spoon and the teacup on top of it with the handle turned to the right.

3. Put out a three tiered tray with snacks on it in the center of the table. Finger foods are typically served at tea parties, limits the amount of flatware needed and accommodates variety. Serve finger sandwiches, which can be tailored for vegans and meat-eaters.

4. Use a tray the carry the tea pot and condiments.In addition to the tea pot, include a sugar bowl filled with sugar cubes, a small milk pitcher, tea spoon, napkin, small bowl with lemon slices and two small tongs -- one to use for the lemon and another for the sugar. Use the tea spoon to stir the tea before handing the cup back to the guest. Place the tray off to the side of the table, away from guests.

5. Choose a small floral arrangement depending on the size of the table. For a smaller table, put a larger =flower, such as a rose, in a tube vase. Combine it with some baby's breath. On a larger table, use a short floral centerpiece that is compacted into a small square or round vase. Each option allows the flowers to beautifully decorate the table but not interrupt the line of sight between guests. Place it off to the side of the table near the tray.

References

• Tea Party Girl: How to Set the Table for Tea--Eight Helpful Tips
• Professor's House: Proper Way to Serve Tea
• Elmwood Inn: Making Good Tea Time after Time
• CDKitchen: Tea or Finger Sandwiches Recipes
• Tea Party Guide: Table and Silverware Etiquette