How to Be Loyal to a Long Distance Boyfriend

By Jennifer Glennon

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Your boyfriend is many miles away and you already miss him. Whether he is away for business or he lives far away, having a long distance boyfriend is no easy matter. One of the hardest part of having a long distance boyfriend is remaining loyal to him. The part of you that is missing him the most will quickly turn to get the attention of another man if given the opportunity. Follow these steps to be loyal to your long-distance boyfriend.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

  • 1 day planner
  • 1 email account
  • 1 digital camera
  • 1 pack of stationary

Being Loyal to Your Long Distance Boyfriend Can Be a Breeze

Step1
Fill your day planner with many activities with your friends and family. The busier you are while your long distance boyfriend is away the more likely you are to be loyal to him.
Step2
Call and talk to your long distance boyfriend at least every 3 days if not more often. Out of sight, out of mind usually is the key factor when someone is not loyal in their relationship. Hearing his voice will help you connect to him and keep him in your thoughts.
Step3
Email your sweetheart at least once a week. Recap any events that you may have attended that you thought of him at. Include what you think he may have liked. Including him in your life even though he is far away will keep you loyal.
Step4
Write a letter to your long distance boyfriend once a month. You can put a picture of yourself in the letter from one of your activities. Keeping your long distance boyfriend in mind with this personal touch will help you stay loyal.

Tips & Warnings

  • Keep in contact with your long distance boyfriend just as much as when he was in your area. Making it feel like he never left with how much you two talked will keep you loyal by making it feel like he never left.
  • When filling you day planner with events, stay away from bars and other "meat" markets where men will try to pick you up. You will be more loyal to your long distance boyfriend if you do not put temptation in your path.

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on 9/24/2008 Thank you this is the best site ever :D

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on 9/17/2008 Showing your loyalty in a LDR can also mean doing sweet things for your boyfriend or actually doing things together despite the distance (other than just talking on the phone or emailing back and forth). Here is a list of 47 ideas LDR couples can do together (or for each other) from a distance: http://www.lovingfromadistance.com/thingsforldrcouplestodo.htm

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