How to Attract a Girl as an Exceptionally Intelligent Guy
If you are exceptionally bright, then chances are good that you're used to success, but the strategies and skills that work in the classroom might not work in your romantic life. There are ways that you can make your super intelligence work in your favor to get girls to like you just the way you are.
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Seek out the smart girls. If you love to share intellectually stimulating conversations, then you need to find a partner who can contribute brilliant ideas of her own. Smart girls intimidate many men, but because you can match or exceed their intellectual powers, you make a great candidate. Get a smart girl to like you by wooing her with your intellectual pursuits and listening as she speaks about her own intelligent passions.
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Show off your smarts without being condescending. Since you are usually the smartest person in any given room, you have a lot to offer as a teacher and conversation partner. Be helpful and spend as much time listening to a girl as talking about yourself, and she's bound to like you for your interesting ideas.
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Learn from the masters. If you wanted to gain knowledge in an intellectual area, you'd find out what experts have to say. The same rule applies to wooing women. Watch and learn from the guys who are best at getting dates, and apply their tactics to your own pursuits.
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Deal with emotional matters. Just because you're an intellectual genius doesn't mean you know how to handle your feelings, and most girls are attracted to guys who understand matters of the heart. Be willing to connect with a girl on an emotional level, not just an intellectual level, and you've got a better chance of getting that girl to notice you.
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Comments
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coccinelle69
Jan 10, 2010
I'm a woman myself and agree to every thing said in this article about what we would like to see in an ideal partner (I quote as an example: "guys who understand matters of the heart"). I can also relate to the difficulty of finding a compatible mate when being exceptionally intelligent since I love to share "intellectually stimulating conversations" and do not feel chemistry with someone who either can't keep up with the conversation or simply isn't interested in the subject. This being said, I will put myself into your shoes and assume most of you who are of this intellectual caliber will struggle with the issue of finding a balance between sharing what you know and letting the girl share as well. Since we women need to feel our opinion matters to you, I would suggest you to pay close attention to that balance. Although I could go on and go about what is on our mind, I will stop ...