How to Give Constructive Criticism

Many may hold back from giving constructive criticism because they don't want to hurt the other person's feelings. Nonetheless, there are times when offering constructive criticism is the loving thing to do. With a little forethought, you can give constructive criticism and obtain positive results.

Instructions

1. Make sure that you truly want to help the person. Don't give criticism just to make yourself feel good or increase your own self-esteem.

2. Treat others as you would like to be treated. Put yourself in the other person's place and think about how you would feel if you received criticism with the same choice of words.

3. Choose the right moment. If the person is upset or going through a difficult situation, it may not be the best time to offer criticism.

4. Find something positive about which to give commendation. A person who receives commendation is more likely to accept constructive criticism.

5. Let the person know that you want to help him. It's easier to accept criticism from someone who cares.

6. Use tact when giving criticism. Telling someone the truth doesn't mean that you have to be hurtful. The way you say something has a lot to do with how the other person will react.

7. Conclude by letting the person know that you're confident that he'll consider what you have to say. Doing this will show respect for the other person.