How to Give a Tantra Yoni Massage

Tantra is a form of sexual activity that focuses on stimulation and intense pleasure. The Yoni Massage is given to a woman by her partner. 'Yoni' is an alternative word in Tantra for the vagina. The purpose of the Yoni massage is for the woman to intensely relax and experience pleasure. These steps will help you learn how to give a Yoni Massage.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• -oil
• -razor
• -shower
• -soap
• -pillows

How to Give a Tantra Yoni Massage

1. Empty the bladder. Prior to engaging in the Yoni massage, the woman needs to release her bladder and urinate. The woman does not want to have a full bladder during the Yoni massage.

2. Shower or bathe together. Prior to the massage, the couple should bathe together. This is a sensual step for both individuals and allows the woman to prepare for the massage. If she chooses to, now is the time to shave. Having smoother genitals allows for a closer massage.

3. Both partners get in the position. The woman lies on her back with a pillow under her head. She also places a pillow underneath her hips. The purpose of the extra pillow is to elevate her hips. Once she is lying down she puts her legs up halfway toward her buttocks and exposes her vagina. Her partner sits in between her legs with his or her legs crossed.

4. Begin the breathing exercises and begin the full body relaxation massage. In order to relax both partners, began breathing exercises. The key is relaxation. The breathing exercises should continue throughout the massage.

5. Apply the lubricant or warm scented oil to the outside of the woman's vagina. Once the woman is prepped for the massage, her partner applies her favorite lubricant or hot oil to the outside of her vagina. Her partner slowly and sensually massages her vaginal lips.

6. Focus on the clitoris. The woman's partner begins to rub her clitoris in a clockwise motion and then to a counter clockwise motion adjusting the speed and pressure based on the woman's preferences. The partner uses his thumb and index finger to gently squeeze the clitoris.

7. Focus on the inside of the vagina. The woman's partner sticks his or her middle finger into the woman's vagina. He or she explores the woman's vagina at various speeds and depth. At one point, the woman's partner focuses his or her finger up towards the woman's G-spot with is called the "sacred spot" in Tantra.

8. Finish the massage. Once the woman decides that she is ready to stop with the massage, her partner ends the massage. From that point on, the couple can move on to other sexual activities such as intercourse or if the woman's partner is a male, the Lingham massage. If the woman's partner is a female, she may reciprocate and give her a Yoni massage. Have fun!

Tips & Warnings

• Pick up some scented Tantra oils to use in the massage.
• Do not focus on giving or receiving an orgasm. The purpose of the Yoni massage is relaxation and intense pleasure.

[suzieheumann]

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[sptierney6]

on 7/20/2008 I'd suggest the use of unscented grapeseed oil for the internal version of this massage which more focuses on anterior fornix & G Spot resulting in female ejaculation. Check out www.freewebs.com/sensualawakening