How to Stop Your Toddler From Talking Back

Teaching your toddler respect and good manners can be a difficult task. Toddlers often engage in a variety of inappropriate activities as they seek to understand their place in the world around them. Talking back is a common toddler offense which can frustrate even the calmest parent. Take the time to stop your toddler from talking back to ensure your toddler is a well adjusted individual.

Instructions

1. Explain to your toddler why talking back is wrong. Help your toddler understand that talking back is not an appropriate action and can lead to hurt feelings. Use simple examples to demonstrate this to your toddler. For example, when your toddler talks back to you, immediately explain that you feel very sad because of his actions.

2. Stay calm. Your toddler is not the first toddler that ever talked back to a parent. Your child will react to your emotions. Avoid escalating the situation by speaking to your toddler in a firm considerate tone. Emphasis should be put on correcting behavior, not belittling your toddler.

3. Ensure everyone is on board. Your toddler should receive the same correction from all household members and caregivers. For example, it is counter productive for your toddler to be able to talk back at Aunt Jane's house or daycare, while being reprimanded for this action at home.

4. Use positive reinforcements. Let your toddler know that there are rewards for positive behavior. While you don't want to overdo treats like candy, it is important for the toddler to see the fruits of her labor. For example, set up a gold star reward system to encourage positive interactions.

5. Repeat yourself. Your toddler may need to be reminded of rules and proper behavior several times throughout the day. Although toddlers have short attention spans, learning to refrain from talking back will become more natural with consistent correction and positive reinforcement.