How to Find Love Where You Least Expect It

Falling in love can be downright difficult. You never know what the other person is thinking and many a times, one individual feels stronger than their partner. One of the best things about falling in love is doing so spontaneously. To find love where you least expect it, you have to be right with yourself. When you're happy as a single person, you tend to radiate that "glow" which is impossible to ignore. Follow the following steps in order to find love where you least expected it.

Things You'll Need

• A good personality
• Kindness
• Acceptance of oneself
• A social life
• Big smile

Instructions

1. Look for the ordinary instead of the extraordinary. Many of us go through life looking for greener pastures, be it a larger HD tv or a more successful boyfriend. When you stop and look at what you actually have within your grasp, you realize that love can blossom much easier than you originally thought.

2. Do something daring. If the idea of asking a stranger at Starbucks for their number terrifies you, go for it. What can it hurt? The worst they can do is say no.

3. Free up some of your time. Between board meetings, e-mails, and extra long work hours, many people forget about finding true love. Instead of taking on that extra project at work, go home early for once. Fill in free time with social dates and activities.

4. Be confident. If you're at a dinner party solo, pretend you're royalty. Be a suave conversationalist, shake everyone's hands, and project a demure aura that no one can resist. You might just get your best friend's cousin thinking, "Who IS that girl?"

5. Be more casual. You can find love in the most mundane of places. If you're at the grocery store, ask that cute guy examining coffee beans if he recommends Columbian or de-caf. If you're at the library, ask the woman you can't get your eyes off of if she has a pen you can borrow.

6. Look to your friends. Not for advice, that is. Many people forget how close they are to their friends and pass them off as unavailable. Your next relationship could be with your poker buddy.

Tips & Warnings

• Always remain positive. When you're happy and love your life, you'll attract likeminded people.

• Never push a relationship that isn't moving forward. It's either meant to be or it isn't. If it's too much work, you have your answer.