How to Pick Up a Woman at a Bar
If you are a single guy, you may be wondering how to pick up a woman at a bar. Well, there is no perfect road map to success, but there are a few tips and tricks you can learn to make your chances of going home with the most attractive woman in the bar, night after night. Read on and learn how to pick up a woman at a bar, Romeo.
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How to Pick up a Woman at a Bar
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Find a good singles bar and go there on any night of the week. If you want to avoid the crowds, go through the week and avoid Friday and Saturday night mobs altogether. Start out small and then work your way up to the fancier establishments.
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Make casual conversation with the person next to you at the bar. Establish yourself as a normal, friendly person that gets along well with others. She'll notice you if you are having a good time.
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Through the course of the night, try to make eye contact with an attractive woman. This is not the psychopathic leer of a crazed lunatic, it should only last a few seconds. If the woman returns your eye contact and smiles, it is time to make your move.
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Try and discern what type of drink she is having, and order one for her. If she smiles or says thank you, approach her and strike up a conversation.
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Talk a little about yourself and get her to talk more about herself, because that's what you are interested. Avoid canned cliches. If you have a witty comment use it. A compliment never fails. Just pick out her best quality and bring it to her attention, but keep it above the neckline before you move to more sensitive territory.
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If things are going well, move the conversation to topics outside the bar. Tell her about the places you have been, and where she hangs out. Listen to what she says and comment on it, showing you actually heard and understand her. Avoid asking her where she lives or other personal facts at first, these are things only a stalker would ask right away.
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When it is time to leave, decide on where to go based on who lives closest to the bar. If she's interested, trusts you and sees you not a lunatic, she won't mind telling you where she sleeps at night. You'll both know where you are going and why at this point!
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Tips & Warnings
Read her body contact for clues on what she likes and dislikes. You can also determine this by how she's dressed. Is there right from work? Where does she work? Do you know anyone there? There's no more pathetic sight than watching someone struggle through a bad conversation. If things go poorly, make a clean exit and meet someone new. You'll get the hang of striking up conversations and get over that initial hesitation.
Don't approach women in large groups unless you want your manhood hung on the bar for all to see. Instead, single out the women that seem about your age, are alone, or with a few friends after work. You can buy a woman a drink if she's with friends, and then wait until the friends leave. If she stays behind you best make your move, however.
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This is just the basic stuff. It also helps to not get so drunk , and be very selective of the girls that you want to hit on. The ones that have had a bit to drink will be much more trusting than the ones that are sitting in the corner sipping. But then again it all comes down to what class you are looking for.
