Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Step1
Stop fretting about the orgasm you are about to have and focus instead on the fabulous sensation you are experiencing.
Step2
Know your orgasm inside out, so you know exactly what's going to send you over the edge. The easiest way to do this is to think about your last great orgasm. Practice rating yourself to gain control.
Step3
Make friends with her vibrator- Most men feel threated and are sometimes envious of the apparatus. But then, they say a vibrator is the best way to achieve simultaneous orgasm. One of you can hold a vibrator over the clitoral area during penetrative sex to attain dual nirvana.
Step4
Have an orgasm first and make the "together" orgasm the second one. Most men find that they have much better control the second time around.