Things You'll Need:
- An open mind
- A credit card
- A phone
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Step 1
Make sure to know what your fantasy is before you call. It's a waste of money to call and just let the phone sex operator decide what YOU like. Look at it this way, in anything else in life you usually pick and choose so why leave your erotic experience up to someone else? Phone sex operators have experience and can usually lead you into something satisfying but what if what they like isn't exactly what you want?
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Step 2
If you have a fantasy in mind, feel free to share it with the girl of your choice. Let her know what you enjoy and find erotic. Nine times out of ten, she's heard it before. Do make sure that if you have a particular taboo fetish that you make sure the company you call caters to these fantasies. Not every company is taboo free, nor is every girl. Each girl will sometimes have limits on what she will talk about so if her listing doesn't particularly note it, feel free to ask. She'll appreciate it and you won't be in for a shock when someone stops you cold after you cross her personal line.
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Step 3
Phone sex operators are human beings and most of them work at their house. The old days of cubicles farms and offices aren't too common now so you are usually calling a girl in her home. Treat her like a real person. Most girls will love it if you want to talk or at least say "thank you" or "bye" to her after you're done. It's not a requirement and understandably, some of you just want to "get off" and hang up. That's perfectly fine. But if you do want to make small talk or thank her for a good time, she'll appreciate it. It's rude, even in the phone sex world, to slam the phone down once you're done. Again, it's not a "must" but do keep in mind that girls like to know they've shown you a good time, why not let her know?
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Step 4
Unless you have to due to location, don't be quiet and let her do all of the talking unless you're solely into that. They like hearing you talk and they like hearing you get off. How are they to know you had fun and are finished if they can't hear you? Be loud, you can do it!
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Step 5
Don't feel embarrassed by your fetish or even the call itself. Like I said, they've heard it all before and it's not usual that you're going to have some kind of fetish no one has heard before. They talk to guys every day and look at it this way, they can't see you or even know who you are, so have fun and enjoy yourself. No one is going to make you feel ashamed or embarrassed unless that's what you're into.
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Step 6
Don't waste your girl's time by sending her instant messages or promising a call you'll never make just because you think it's cute. Her time is valuable, just like yours. Also, a phone sex operator is a professional. You're not going to meet her in person and sweep her off her feet. She's heard it a million times before. Now granted, sometimes a customer and a PSO have met in person and it's worked out but that's not the norm. Treat her special but don't make expectations of her she can't keep. It's not safe to meet someone you've only had phone sex with for her or even for you. So don't ask!
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Step 7
Don't assume that she thinks of you as just a client and nothing more. Some PSO's and their customers are good friends and think of each other as very close. This all depends on the PSO and the customer individually. Some PSO's like to be professional in the fullest and don't want to know their clients. However, some really do enjoy getting to know the guy or girl they're talking to.
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Step 8
Do make tips. This is hardly a requirement but if you feel that you've been shown an extra special time, feel free to show your PSO that you appreciate it.
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Step 9
Above all else, just have fun! A lot of guys call for 3 minutes, get off, and hang up. That's perfectly fine. If you're a guy who likes to spend more time on the phone or wants to know how the phone sex operator feels, perhaps these tips might help you out.
Comments
MacDonald said
on 10/23/2008 Love it!!