Things You'll Need:
- A Scorpio man
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Step 1
Remember that a Scorpio man has strengths and weaknesses. His strengths include being loyal, passionate, resourceful, observant and dynamic. His weaknesses include being jealous, unyielding, manipulative, suspicious and obsessive.
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Step 2
Understand that a Scorpio man is intensely independent. They will most likely never give up on something that they've set their mind to. They prefer to be in control of situations, and this includes what happens at home. To keep the Scorpio man happy, let them have their independence. Do not tell them that they are incapable of anything.
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Step 3
Understand that a Scorpio man prefers being in complete control in the business area of their life as well. He will be perfectly suited in a position that will greatly impact people or society. The Scorpio man will usually be very good with money, having the ability to make it and conserve it. They will often remain secretive of their money and power, if nothing else to ensure that no one tries to take advantage of them. You must be willing to put up with a Scorpio man's quest for power positions.
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Step 4
Remember that a Scorpio man is just a series of extremes. There is usually no half way mark. The Scorpio man can be possessive and jealous, but makes up for it with loyalty. He will never forget something that someone has done, whether it is an act of kindness or betrayal. He will often try to repay the act as well. If someone has wronged him, he will seek vengeance. If someone has helped him, he will do his best to repay the favor. Be completely honest with a Scorpio man, because if you're not, there is a good chance he will find out, and you don't want to be on a Scorpio man's bad side. A Scorpio man is demanding in all of his relationships, but the payoff is worth it.
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Step 5
Don't get offended by the Scorpio man's sense of humor. His sense of humor is often very truthful, but extremely shocking. He may joke about things that other people wouldn't say out loud. In a nutshell, the Scorpio man will say things that everyone else is afraid to say.
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Step 6
Never forget that a Scorpio man is determined. Even if a course of action isn't working well, he can find another plan that will accomplish the same goal. He is even determined to always get his point across. He can spout facts and arguments that support his ideas. Be careful though. He is also very capable of manipulation. An immoral Scorpio man will say or do just about anything to get what he wants.
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Step 7
Understand that the Scorpio man has a fear of failure, but he will not let it show. If he fails in something, he will simply appear to brush it off and move on. Do not just assume that he is over something that would bother anyone else. The Scorpio man refuses to show weakness. Just remember that the Scorpio man will usually have a strong front, even if he's dying on the inside.
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Step 8
Understand the Scorpio man all around. He is a man of intensity, in everything he does. When he's sad, he's sad. When he's happy, he's ecstatic. He will always believe that he has a deep purpose in life. He is dedicated to everything he sets his mind to. He is very intuitive and understands people very well. He can often decipher exactly what someone means when they say or do something, even if the person is trying to be manipulative.
Comments
anisurfer said
on 7/8/2009 Be strong, accept what you have done but don't be controlled by your past. What's going to happen WILL happen ! And DO NOT play games. Last thing a scorpio wanna feel is that he is some kind of toy. Just be direct and sincere. This might need a personality change from your side. See within yourself and become a changed person, be nice to him but DO NOT TRY TOO HARD ! He would hate that. Do nice things for other people, that would help you too. If it's meant to be, he will show signs that he has forgiven you. Best !
anisurfer said
on 7/8/2009 You can observe this: He will not tell as many things about himself as before. Nights would be very passionate (scorpion emotions sometimes comes out physically). He will ask you the same question in a round about way to see your response may be even a day or two later. If he is seeing you at a mall, he will call you and ask "where are you honey?" etc. Most importantly, he will directly/indirectly ask you to reveal all your secrets. And remember, just when you think you have won him over, he might dump you ! It's a dangerous road now, truth be told. I don't see if it's even worth it. Of course, all this is just "horoscopic" view, fact might be something else. Listen to your heart. That's the best voice. Don't play games to win him over. Just be direct, sincere and loyal. Also, get rid of any guilt you might have. Guilt makes you weak and vulnerable. Be strong, accept what you have do...
anisurfer said
on 7/8/2009 @luftmensch: You are a brave woman to betray a scorpio. My sincere advice, move on and get someone else. If your ex is a strong scorpio which seems like he is with his loyalty and devotion towards you, then he WILL get back at you. I am not gonna help you in getting him back. For me, once a cheater always a cheater. I have simple logic, I am gonna be loyal to someone and expect them to be same and if they can't then hell save them. Well this is how we think. ;-) I can warn you with signs about how this will go though:
You flatter him, apologize to him and show you are trustworthy gazillion times. Then he eventually comes in terms with you. But he has lost certain trust in you.
luftmensch said
on 7/8/2009 I betrayed my Scorpio boyfriend and made a huge mistake. How can I win him back over? He was intensely committed, which I didn't realize until I broke it off. Its been a month of agony and I'm trying to get him back now after giving him a bit of space, but I don't even know where to start. I feel like he never wants to see me or speak to me again.
luftmensch said
on 7/8/2009 I betrayed my Scorpio boyfriend and made a huge mistake. How can I win him back over? He was intensely committed, which I didn't realize until I broke it off. Its been a month of agony and I'm trying to get him back now after giving him a bit of space, but I don't even know where to start. I feel like he never wants to see me or speak to me again.